-1 for "If the health issue is a contributing factor to how you feel about marrying him, that doesn't make you a bad person" Yes, it does. — fkraiem 59 secs ago

Seems like your 23, lucky to be able to live off some one else instead of finding for your self, and being overly picky about what you eat and refusing to eat her free food and now wanting to complain about it. Not trying to knock you, this happens when your accustomed to so much. But reality is with out the things others are providing you, it sounds like you would have nothing, and if you have ever experienced that, you would eat cake and eggs because frankly you are hungry. — marshal craft 2 mins ago

Just ask if there are any special dietary needs. I regularly arrange meetings and just add it to the email, noting I have already catered for our Muslim member. No one gets upset and no one dies from an allergic reaction. — Stevetech 1 min ago

@RedSonja of course, what's "embarassing" and "revolting" is all too often culture-specific. But hey, if you got a round of general applause it's okay, surely you haven't traumatized this guy for life. Also, "fromma Napoli"? Kind of racist. — Tobia Tesan 33 secs ago

I personally upvoted this answer. To the OP: You are in no way obliged to entertain people that only comes to you asking how to do it. You might give some general pointers, for the rest, charge for it. Though I do find strange people searching you just for the purpose of knowing how to publish a site. — Rui F Ribeiro 1 min ago