That assumption is at best corrollary to OP's question. His question is more along the lines of getting through to people, which you don't acknowledge or address at all. Also directly stating that anyone from a minority group is "likely" to claim sexism/racism/homophobia at every slight is offensive and wrong. Consider revising your answer please. -1 for now. — user5389107 13 mins ago

The rest of this answer is ok but the last sentence makes me hesitate giving this a +1. That's the sort of thing that could get you in danger. — Pyritie 30 secs ago

The rest of this answer is ok but the last sentence makes me hesitate giving this a +1. That's the sort of thing that could get you in danger. — Pyritie 8 mins ago

The rest of this answer is ok but the last sentence makes me hesitate giving this a +1. That's the sort of thing that could get you in danger. — Pyritie 10 mins ago

The rest of this answer is ok but the last sentence makes me hesitate giving this a +1. That's the sort of thing that could get you in danger. — Pyritie 13 mins ago

@Raditz_35 I believe you are right about it just being a worry, just from everything she’s said so far, she is one of the nicer people that I am friends with. A lot of people I have been around have made crude teen jokes and other related gimmicks, but I don’t think that everyone responds the same to that, and unfortunately, that’s what comes to mind first. — Sean 10 mins ago

@Raditz_35 I believe you are right about it just being a worry, just from everything she’s said so far, she is one of the nicer people that I am friends with. A lot of people I have been around have made crude teen jokes and other related gimmicks, but I don’t think that everyone responds the same to that, and unfortunately, that’s what comes to mind first. — Sean 12 mins ago

+1 for the literally doing nothing. I'd say the main reason why this will work is because it shows them that their actions take the fun out of it for you rather than you playing hard to get. It's the perfect level of politeness to get them to quit without actually being mean either. — Imus 18 mins ago

@HDE226868 yes, I agree (the way I wrote may look it like a quick fix). Let me just edit it a little then. — CPHPython 1 min ago

Welcome to Interpersonal Skills. Please take a moment to visit the help center and take the tour. This sounds like an incredibly rough situation that you are in. Unfortunately your question as written is a bit too broad for this site. Can you edit your post to be more specific about your goals are for interacting with your SO? — sphennings 1 min ago

I would appreciate some comments regarding the downvotes. — QEDemonstrandum 27 secs ago

It's likely that the downvotes are because there are people who find your answer not useful but don't have any constructive criticism to add. Comments are not for discussion. They are intended only for suggesting improvements and requesting clarification. Any comment doing otherwise is likely to be quickly removed. — sphennings 13 secs ago

I agree with the first paragraph, however, the OP already has a shoe rack: "I have a shoe rack right next to the door as a visual reminder for those who come over" — Davіd 16 secs ago