First of all, this post is missing an specific goal. "Why is it so difficult to....?" Is very subjective and not a goal. If you asked "How to make friends?", what probably comes more along the lines of what are you wanting, this is still likely to be closed as very broad. And anyways, to give such an answer, we actually had to know how you interact with others to understand what might help you in making new friends. Also you say "lemme explain what I understand as friends" what would be a very important info for us, too. But then you just note what you don't mean by friends but not what you do — dhein 1 min ago

"Do you mind if I fill my drink?" To me that would sound like you're being impatient and are asking me to hurry up, not whether you can fill along with me. Why did this get that many upvotes, I have no idea. — Tomáš Zato 1 min ago

@WeckarE. But overweight people are automatically unhealthy. That's a basic fact that children should absolutely know. If every weight were healthy, we wouldn't call it _over_weight... — ell 1 min ago

@WeckarE. Why do you feel that way? It seems reasonable that a parent would want to educate their children about the fact that obesity is unhealthy and should be avoided. — ell 1 min ago

@Guest1234 I think you should decide first about the " different way", and then edit the question to make it on-topic. Just like interpersonal.stackexchange.com/posts/22463/revisions this edit on the other question. — ankiiiiiii 1 min ago