suppose $T \in GL_3(k)$ such that the $(x\wedge y)$-line and the $(y\wedge z,x\wedge z)$-plane are stable by $Alt^2(T)$.
write its matrix $\begin{pmatrix}a &b &c\\d &e &f\\g &h &i\end{pmatrix}$.
Then $ah=bg, dh=eg, af=cd, bf=ce$
$\det(T) = aei+bfg+cdh-afh-bdi-ceg = aei+afh+ceg-afh-bdi-ceg = (ae-bd)i$
$c\det(T) = c(ae-bd)i = (ace - bcd)i = (abf - abf)i = 0$
so $c=0$, and a similar computation shows $b=d=g=0$, and so
the $z$-line and the $(x,y)$-plane are stable by $T$