@edgerunner- you asked me to let you know when I was available, but I haven't heard from you. I didn't know with the spectacular end of the other answer if you'd abandoned this chat also, but let me know if not, and you still wanted to discuss.
@BESW To a certain extent, I totally agree. But in another way, I disagree, as there are certain responsibilities and roles that the GM has vs. other players. The GM is definitely in a different role than in other games; the closest I can say is the AW engine (which is one of the reasons I'm so taken with that rules set also). But there is still a dichotomy between someone who is playing and someone who is running. I've seen some that don't have this, and those are totally different IMO.