I’m voting to close this question because as per our help center, questions asking us for what to say are off-topic on this site. Interpersonal Skills are behaviors you use to interact with other people well and reach certain goals, so if you're struggling with how to say a certain thing we might be able to help, but you're going to have to include more details (like what you would say, what part of how to say it you're struggling with, and what goal you want to reach by saying this) — Tinkeringbell ♦ 1 min ago

Hey TheProseMix! At this point, I think your question is lacking a bit of a goal, which might also be caused by the question being rather broad (asking for an answer to fix all the imbalances) First off, could you clarify your goal a little more: What would an 'addressed' situation look like to you? Secondly, what have you tried to address the imbalances yourself, to try and resolve all of these? — Tinkeringbell ♦ 2 mins ago

Also, together with your other question, this paints a pretty grim picture, of a situation that may need more help than this site can provide. If you can, talk about these things with a friend or family member, or perhaps even better, a professional (marriage) therapist. Because addressing these imbalances, together with your suspicions of being gaslit... it does seem to be much more than a mere matter of problems with your interpersonal skills, with the behavior you use when interacting with your wife. — Tinkeringbell ♦ 1 min ago

Next time you might want to specify which part of India in the question. India is a very large place and many different places in India have different cultures. For example, if this was in Punjab, I would reccomend not wearing saris, but if this was in a different part of India the reccomendation would be much different. — Yay 2 mins ago