At this point, it sounds like you're using this site to ask 'what should I do', and you're mostly focused on getting someone else to do something. But on Interpersonal Skills, we focus on the behaviors people use to interact well, and we can only help you with yours. Try rephrasing the question so the goal is related to
you, not related to making
other people stop. What kind of interactions are you having/planning on having that you'd need our help with, and what have you considered doing, yet has proven not to work/you think it won't work? —
Tinkeringbell ♦ 2 mins ago