\documentclass[a4paper]{article}
\usepackage{amsmath}
\usepackage{tikz}
\usetikzlibrary{tikzmark}
\usetikzmarklibrary{highlight}
\newcommand{\tikzmarkset}[2]{
\pgfkeys{/tikz/#1/.cd,#2}
}
\begin{document}
\[\highlight[colour=green!50]{x+y}=100\]
\tikzmarkset{highlighter}{left margin=1ex,right margin=1ex, top margin=3ex, bottom margin=4ex,colour=cyan!50}
\[\highlight{x+y}=100\] % same as before? Strange!
\tikzmarkset{highlighter}{colour=orange!50,initial offset=1pt,final offset=1pt}
\[\highlight[final depth=7pt]{x+y}=100\]