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2:47 AM
Sup guys?
@BenBrocka I'm starting to see you in practically every GAF thread, are you ok? :P
 
 
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7:03 AM
@Rahul Had fun yesterday. Put 30 databases offline and turned my head to the support queue to see if someone actually used them and couldn't access them. Kind of Management by Recovery ;-)
 
 
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8:38 AM
@JohnGB I'm 22 weeks along. This is my 2nd, I already have a little girl 16 months.
 
9:26 AM
@Franchesca So having one didn't put you off having any more? ;)
 
9:44 AM
@JonW No, I think we got really lucky with my Daughter. She was a very easy baby and slept through the night by about 2 months.
This one is going to be a boy though, so I'm expecting more trouble ;)
 
@Franchesca My wife and I are on our first, and she's 2 months old. She certainly is not an easy baby though!
Just the one for us I think!
But congrats on your new little one.
(Note: I am tired and grumpy - see above re: having a 2 month old baby)
 
hehehe, it gets better
I had to bottle feed, and they sleep a lot more at night because of that.
In the first week I did have a moment where she wouldn't stop crying and I was holding her, then her dad, then when nothing worked we just put her down on the bed, looked at each other, and said "What now?"
 
@Franchesca Yeah, that has been our first 2 months experience.
 
I did the "put them down to sleep while still awake" thing once she got over the colic. Seemed to work a treat.
I counted 3 yawns, then put her in the cot. She soon learned to go to sleep there (at the start she would only go to sleep on her dad's chest)
 
10:29 AM
To be honest she's sleeping OK at night. It's the daytimes that are the trouble. Doesn't feed enough in one go, has to feed every 2 hours and complains the whole time, so it's quite stressful for mum.
I get to go to work though. Luckily I get home in the evening when the colic is kicking in! It's all fun and games in my house at the moment!
 
Yeh, it's so hard being the one in the house all day. You can't even have peace to go to the bathroom sometimes. I feel her pain!
Once the colic goes it gets better, and then it just keeps getting easier as they can do more things for themselves.
of course, I don't know what the "terrible twos" are like yet
 
I'm sure your little girl will be fine in her two's. Plus, you'll have the joy of a newborn and a twoyear old running around at the same time!
It's tricky enough trying to look after one baby and stop the cats from 'investigating' her cot / rocker / changing bag etc all day. I think having an actual child around while looking after the baby would make me crazy.
 
Morning lad
 
10:49 AM
Ugh, yeh, I have 3 cats. They have learned to either fear or (in the case of the big fat one) curl up and ignore her.
 
Oh yeah, the cats ignore the baby. It's all her stuff that they're interested in!
@I'll-Be-Back Morning
 
I hope I can manage 2 without going crazy!
We turned stuff upside down to try and stop them, but they just see every baby thing as a lovely bed.
 
Is there any UI/UX example when change a "Title" or something. It will warn you that changing the Title, will update the title from another categories too. Something like that?
 
11:05 AM
@I'll-Be-Back Title of what?
 
11:19 AM
@BennySkogberg You sound like a Microsoft professional there :P
@Franchesca That's cool. I think we'll plan on having another when this one is about 18 months, so it should be about the same schedule as you.
@JonW What I found worked wonders at about 2-6 months was to put the baby in a carrier and dance to music.
French reggae seemed to work the best, but I don't think I was very scientific with it.
 
@JohnGB That would require having energy.
 
Trust me, it's a lot less energy requirement that simply dealing with the colic
 
@JohnGB I am a fan of a swaddling blanket. It's like a straitjacket for babies.
It's great because a) babies like them. and b) you get the cathartic feeling of punishment, but none of the guilt because they like it.
 
If that works. Ours went crazy when restraining her arms in any way
The problem with the dancing is that it became a reflex whenever there was music and I was standing still. So then i'd be in a supermarket and find myself doing some funky hip movements to the music.
 
@JonW Eg: Changing the title of the Product Name.
 
11:32 AM
@I'll-Be-Back OK, I got you. But no, I don't know of any examples off the top of my head I'm afraid. Maybe look into some CMS sites? Seems like something that'd come up there.
 
@Franchesca How did you cope with being alone with the baby all day? I've done it a few times when everyone else was gone for a day, and it was quite frustrating not being able to go to the toilet or make food. I'm sure there are tricks that I'm missing.
 
@JonW No worries, I will look around. Same product can be applied more than one category. At later stage if a staff want to change the title, maybe some kind of option like only apply in this category and do not update to other categories too. Give staff more flexibility.
I have to think about that
 
@JohnGB Yes, tips on this'd be good! Wife is off getting hair appointment on Saturday so I'm left all alone with baby for most of the day. Am I allowed to lock her in the shed for several hours?
 
The way our grandparents did it was with wiskey
 
11:47 AM
I think that's frowned upon nowadays though. Unless you mean using it to self-medicate so that you can cope with everything!
But I use wine for that. Or 'Daddys medicine' as I'm calling it.
 
It's amazing the things that were considered good 100 years ago
I just use changes in orientation, in a carrier and that works for me
 
12:10 PM
@JohnGB Coping with being alone all day involves getting used to drinking cold coffee, and accepting that sometimes you just have to leave them crying for a while so you can do something essential for you. If I was in the shower and she woke up, that was just tough. Jumping immediately to respond in some situations just left me feeling more stressed in the long run.
 
I found a different if somewhat more expensive solution.
Step 1: Import grandparents
 
babies cry for some percentage of the day, it doesn't make you a bad parent :)
 
Step 2: See step 1
Yup, that is true
 
hehehe, yes, grandparents can be a big help
except when they tell you that you are doing everything wrong ;)
The Dutch Kramzorg care is really great though, they just teach you everything about baby, and then clean your house (if you get a good agency)
 
Oh, I have a solution to that too:
Step 1: Don't speak any Russian
Step 2: Make sure they don't speak any English :)
But it's tough on my partner sometimes. We've just had to set boundaries, but overall it's worth it.
 
12:14 PM
grandparents prefer old nokia phone without colours screen.. and no smart screen
easy to use
:P
 
Not these ones. They have laptops and smartphones. Just try get them off their laptops at night.
 
I think the society is really messed up. A lot of people spending too much time on the screen (mobile, laptop, computer, ipad, etc) . It is really sad.
 
@JohnGB Most definately. As a consultant one need to make sure that there is work to do ;-P
 
12:32 PM
@BennySkogberg I like the way you think! :)
 
@JohnGB Pity oma and opa speak fulent english. My parents are worse though.
@I'll-Be-Back But they are probably using that screen time to communicate with other people.
 
We did have some drama when they heard that we had no intention of baptising / christening the baby. I have a sneaky suspicion that they may have done something on one of the walks without telling us.
 
12:56 PM
Oh, the mother of an ex of mine baptised her unbaptised grandchild, and her grandchild's Muslim half sister (no blood relation) as Catholics. According to Catholic mythology any baptised person can baptise someone else and it counts.
 
:)
 
1:58 PM
@Franchesca "her grandchild's Muslim half sister (no blood relation) as Catholics" I don't understand this praise.
 
@I'll-Be-Back Complicated situation. The woman's son had a child (her granddaughter) with a woman who already had another child from a previous marriage. So she was not related to her grandaughter's half sister.
 
Ahh I got ya :)
 
2:59 PM
hello
Do you guys have a minute?
 
hi :)
 
3:38 PM
Hello =)
 
Could you look at my website, please?
Something's missing from the landing page, but I don't know what
It looks really thin, as if nothing's there
 
This is wrong place to ask but I will help you anyway.
1) There is not much on the homepage. I would make the paragraph width smaller so the hight of the content will expand.
 
3:55 PM
Ah ok
 
@Deep The waterfall in the background graphic is a little distracting when reading the overlay text.
 
Sorry that its in the wrong place
 
2) Break down a paragraph into a few paragraphs
 
@Franchesca it's a random image, refresh :)
should I increase the font-size?
 
@Deep If you are cycling graphics, then you need to do more to protect yourself from these types of problems
 
3:56 PM
Should I be testing each graphic?
 
I would consider fading / darkening the background image a bit more directly behind the text
It is much easier than testing every possible graphic
 
Ok
 
especially if at some point someone else is going to be controlling the content :)
 
Yes, definetely :D
I've upped it to 70% opaque, is that better?
 
hmm... I was thinking something more along these lines: css-tricks.com/wp-content/csstricks-uploads/…
 
4:04 PM
Behind the content I would add a box with transparent.
To make it more readable.
 
instead of changing the entire background, just do it behind the text
 
Yes @Franchesca beat me
Like that.
 
Wouldn't that make the image more distacting?
 
Users care about the content more than the image.
Users want to know what the website is about.
 
Oh ok
 
4:06 PM
You must be able to read the text, it is maddening if you can't
 
Of course
 
I would make an ordered list of what you want a user to look at / notice first...
And then you can see what content needs to slap them in the face first :P
 
Will do, thanks
 
np :)
 
This chat area is being used!!!! Awesome.
 
4:22 PM
Haha
 
4:35 PM
@Mayo hi :)
 
5:11 PM
@Franchesca hi. I tried "priming the pump", so to speak a few months ago and nothing much came of it. I'm glad to see that it's being used.
I'm glad to see that "designing in the browser" is becoming more commonplace. I've been doing that for a while and getting a lot of funny looks for doing so. There's an interesting article in UIE.com -- uie.com/brainsparks/2015/01/28/…
 
 
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7:03 PM
@Rahul on GAF a lot? Me? Never
 
7:21 PM
@JohnGB - French reggae? That sounds interesting. Any suggestions on who to listen to?
 
7:37 PM
@Mayo: Try Tryo
It's not that I'm much into the genre, it's just that it was what I listened to a lot while I was studying French, and I got to like it.
Also Yannick Noah isn't bad.
 
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Q: Why are keyboards still the predominant input device?

DaveAlgerWhile reading about the history of the computer keyboard I was a little surprised to hear that it is still the primary interface between humans and computers... Despite the development of alternative input devices, such as the mouse, touchscreen, pen devices, character recognition and voice r...

This question, it's edits and the comments on every answer are kind of a huge mess, not entirely sure what to do with it
I closed it for now, not really sure it can be brought back (without a new question) without being a huge mess. Also thinking of purging all the comments for a fresh start but the damage is done
 
7:57 PM
@BenBrocka It was borderline to me and brought in good traffic, so I left it. But I honestly can't see a way of improving it without re-doing most of it.
 
It seems kind of like a specific facet of this question:
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Q: Good reasons to use bad UI

ajkochanowiczI know you just read the title, take a deep breath. I'll explain. When should we make a conscious decision to retain poor UI, even if temporarily? Not because of budget or time constraints but because of what I call the QWERTY paradox. In short, the QWERTY paradox is that users have a better e...

I almost posted it as a comment but I'm not really sure it's salvageable and it's not really a direct dupe (though I happen to reference QWERTY in my anwer)
 
It's a judgement call, and I don't have any reason to disagree.
Salvageable?
 
@JohnGB edited, I think it's better now
aside from the stylistic stuff I think the call for opinions over answers is the only real problem there
 
Better, yes.
 
I think it still reads a bit awkward though
had to finish both paragraphs to really understand what they're asking. And now I know so I'm not sure it's immediately clear or not
 
8:12 PM
It's not the clearest of questions regardless of how your phrase it.
 
A picture might help, I know what they mean now though, basically if you click the item in a list instead of the checkbox, it selects just that one item and deselects the rest
basically what Windows Explorer does in Win 7+
added an image example
 
8:28 PM
Aaaah, that helps a lot.
 
 
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9:47 PM
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