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Q: Why was my one comment deleted?

NonCreature0714I commented on this answer here, which was part of a HNQ about last week, itself in response to another HNQ, and was supportive without being conversational, and was not a “thank you” comment or extended discussion. In fact, the author of the answer and I ended up connecting outside of the StackE...

 
 
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12:26 PM
Definitely a 10k+ superboosts your rep theory
Past two days done nothing and I’m still gaining
 
@Twyxz Good deal.
 
12:39 PM
By the way, I hate self evaluations / performance appraisals.
 
@MisterPositive how well would you say you do at self evaluations?
 
@motosubatsu On a 1 to 10 scale? ;-}
 
@MisterPositive yes please, and how you think you can improve that in the future
 
Ugh so painful
And our manager this year even admitted this has nothing to do with raises.
 
@motosubatsu find them pointless
how good I am in my own eyes / by my own standards has no importance or relevance to the business
they need to know how much I'm adding for them
 
12:56 PM
@Magisch I'm not a fan either.. there's some very niche scenarios where it's useful to do but 99.9999% of the time I see them done it basically is "I don't have time/enough knowledge about you to evaluate you properly so I'm going to ask you to do it instead"
 
@motosubatsu Yes ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@motosubatsu Oh and even a bigger pet peev is the crappy spell checker included with out evaluation app.
 
 
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4:04 PM
Hey there!
@MisterPositive I didn't put the country flag because I didn't want to be potentially recognizable by my coworkers in case this hits HNQ. Sorry if that added some workload to you.
 
@avazula NP I will remove the tag.
 
@MisterPositive Oh don't worry that's okay, it's already in the body anyways
I'm a bit dazzled by how quickly people responded to that ...
And TIL that I think I'm indispensable to my company ^^
 
@avazula interesting question
 
@motosubatsu oh, thanks. I was surprised to see no one asked it before, though. I think it's a pretty common issue in the software industry ...
 
I'm not certain enough on my French employment regs to say for sure but certainly in the UK you wouldn't be legally protected to refuse on that basis - it would be down to the employer as to whether they chose to accommodate it
a few years back a company I was working for had an animal testing lab as a client and one employee refused to work on it and was given permission not too
in that case though the work she was doing was easily farmed out to someone else on the same team
 
4:11 PM
@motosubatsu wooh, that's nice
 
so I'd say if you have a good relationship with your line manager it might be worth having a conversation
 
I think you couldn't just fire someone for that in the EU and france in particular
 
@avazula Sort of similar:
 
I'd try and stay away from demanding that the company not work on the project - instead stating that you find it incompatible with your personal efthics
 
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Q: How to maintain a good relationship with boss after declining work on a project that conflicts with my views/ideology?

ledwinder96Background: I recently graduated from college with a Software/Computer Engineering degree. Right after my degree I started working at a consultant firm (about three months ago). Our firm usually gets projects in the Automotive, MedTech or Defense industries. The last mentioned includes working wi...

 
4:12 PM
since france is notoriously pro worker
 
@Magisch in the UK you can't straight up fire them for it - you can discipline someone for it though
 
I might look to immigrate to the UK once the brexit shenanigans are sorted, btw.
 
@Magisch if there's any of it left!
 
I've been wanting to move to rural scotland for a long time
 
@Magisch wooh, that'd be nice!
But rainy, though
 
4:16 PM
Thats EXACTLY why I want to live there :D
Rainy, not too frigid, doesn't get very hot & humid in the summer
 
@Magisch frigid.. might be a matter of opinion
it can get very cold in Scotland in the winder
winter
 
@Magisch well, that's easy when there are no summer at all
 
I was thinking of compared to my second choice, rural canada
 
@Magisch oh yeah..definitely not as cold as canada
 
4:17 PM
Scotland doesn't regularly dip below -15C, afaik
 
In scotland your fine as long as a) you have a suitable vehicle and b) you have a plan b in the event of loss of power
 
funny how a folk who only want to live on cold place have a cactus as emblem
 
@motosubatsu ... and you're ok with being eaten by small invisible flies...
 
@Snow Ouch
 
@Snow well there is that
 
@Snow sounds like a less annoying variant of our meningitis carrying flying ticks
 
@Magisch oh they have ticks as well
Lime disease for the win!
 
I can deal with lime
tick borne meningitis however can take a long walk off a short cliff
idk these midges look like normal summer flying bugs. Granted, ours are a bit bigger. But they also bite more
sometimes in summer (I'm unusually delightful to blood sucking insects) I get 4-5 bites per day
 
@Magisch Well, these things will bite you 4-5 times per second, per inch of exposed skin.
 
mhm
The only real insects I just can not deal with are bedbugs
whenever I see one or hear about someone having them somewhere I give them the widest berth
 
4:23 PM
There's a reason why Romans didn't settle in Scotland.
Probably several reasons.
 
@Snow That is horrific....
 
I think the whole nearly the entire population consisting of combat-able and comparatively very hardy farmers with a passionate hate for being subjugated didn't help
 
@Magisch Lyme is lifetime-long and very painful ...
 
Are we talking about the same disease
because here there's 2 diseases ticks carry
 
the tick-borne Lyme?
 
4:33 PM
Do people even chill at a water cool
 
FSME (tick borne meningitis) and another that's bacterial
 
Isn't the coffee machine the place to be
 
@avazula Yes, I will pass on that
@MaartenWachters that is what we are doing, chilling out.
 
I'm talking about this one. It slowly destroys bones and joints (among other joyful things)
 
4:34 PM
Yeah that is the same disease
We call it boreliose
 
@Magisch I thought you meant this: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tick-borne_encephalitis
which is also tick borne
 
I've never had it, but was under the impression it's bacterial and treatable with antibiotics
 
and also rather unpleasant
@Magisch Lyme disease is treatable - but only if you catch it early
 
tick-borne encephalitis is the dangerous one
 
@Magisch Well, that's true ... but when diagnosed early enough. I was bitten by ticks but had only one month to get the preventive cure
 
4:35 PM
if not you're basically fecked for life
 
And in my country, it's incredibly difficult to be believed to have Lyme ... People go to Germany to get a treatment.
 
We had 12 cases of that last year in my region
it's terrible
 
That's insane the number of physicians who simply claim that Lyme does not exist
 
@avazula similar here.. you pretty much have to say "look I was in scotland and I bitten by a tickl
 
@motosubatsu ._.
 
4:38 PM
well then
 
@avazula That is a bit shocking....
that is like saying there isn't a carbon emissions issue.
 
@MisterPositive Those are "Lyme sceptics"
Climate sceptical wasn't enough
 
How can you deny a whole disease's existance?
 
@Magisch difficulties to diagnose?
 
...
 
4:42 PM
We encounter the same problem with autism actually ...
People get labeled as depressed, bipolar, ADHD, blah blah blah ... until someone finally recognizes they're autistic
I'm lucky I wasn't assigned all those labels before getting my diagnosis (even though it took 23 years)
Anyway, in my country this seems to be #1's dedicated reason to dismiss Lyme diagnosis
 
@avazula On a positive note, your recent question has some really good answers IMO.
 
 
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@MisterPositive oh sure :)
 
 
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7:48 PM
Half a mil reached and 10 golds hit today
 
 
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9:42 PM
@Twyxz gratz
 

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