Asking for software recommendations is off topic here. Asking for advice on setting up monitoring may be on-topic at PSE or ServerFault, but you would have to provide a lot more information about what you want to monitor. — kdgregory45 secs ago
This question isn't in-scope for StackOverflow. It might be better on the Software Engineer stack, but make sure to check their rules before posting. — numaroth13 secs ago
@GregBell This room used to be a lot more active when the Software Engineering site used to be Programmers (a.k.a. Facebook for Programmers) and people posted their "Favorite Desserts and Music while Programming."
Is it a better site today? I think it is. There are fewer participants, but those that remain are committed to a much more coherent and focused topic area. You can find more background about that here, if you're so inclined:
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We already tried supporting those questions, we even gave them their own site. Sadly, it didn't work out. C'est la vie.
In 2010, a Stack Exchange site called Not Programming Related came out of Area51, the Stack Exchange staging zone. NPR was supposed to be a site where questions that ...
Maybe look through the sites list to see if any look applicable. Be sure to read their posting FAQ before posting though. Maybe SF.SE would be a fit? — Riverjust now