You are probably right about my dad’s perspective. But from where I stand, about my grandma, what I would like is to be informed, so that I could make the decision to come back again or not. It is NOT his decision to make, and he violated my right. In my mom’s case, I wish he could have been direct and just told me that they decided before the surgery. I guess my reaction was bigger than this single event because there had been so many similar incidents in the past, related to my finance, career choices, etc. What I really want is to feel respected and that my feelings matter. —
Storm 1 min ago