What is the issue you have with just telling them what you told us? You don't use the network for that stuff. Did you tell them anything when you disconnected them or did you expect them to guess what you meant by that? — Raditz_35 1 min ago

Please add "My answer applies to western country culture" at the top of your answer. I will remove the downvote. — Aquarius_Girl 28 secs ago

@Arandomlady I'm not quite sure what you meant in your comment to Kate, but in case it helps, although people ask questions and we aim to answer them, answers aren't just for the original asker, they're for anyone who reads them. As such, including a caveat that an ounce of prevention may be better than a pound of cure is good advice for the general reader rather than necessarily an assessment of your abilities. — Spagirl 1 min ago