Yes, I will have to do something about it
now I am still stumped, because it is still complaining about the path to the log file when started from the VM
but it seems to get partly into the correct path, so it is apparently not the share
anyway, thank you for patiently hearing out the problem - which turned out to be a PEBKAC after all
At least I hope you are so accustomed to such cases that I shouldn't be embarrassed
and, to be fair, in principle it should have worked from the other computer too, not just from the VM