You might also check out the Patterns and Characteristics of Codependency.
coda.org/meeting-materials/patterns-and-characteristics-2011 I mention this because one of them is that codependent people "
Use charm and charisma to convince others of their capacity to be caring and compassionate," and another is that they "
Perceive themselves as completely unselfish and dedicated to the well- being of others." —
Feygon yesterday