Now she thinks I'm able to do too much damage with it (we don't even have Extra Attack yet; we're level 4).
The spear is simple, 1d6 piercing, with thrown (20/60) and versatile (1d8)
The longsword is martial, 1d8 slashing, with versatile (1d10)
The broadsword is martial, 1d8 slashing, with finesse
The great spear is martial, 1d12 piercing, with heavy, reach, and two-handed.