Discussion on question by user3681: Just found out my daughter might be gay. Now what?

For everyone jumping on Torben, there is a difference to looking into things when there is the parental equivalent of "probable cause," and then there's snooping/fishing through their stuff out of curiosity or nosiness.. Sorry, but ESPECIALLY as they become teenagers and grow into adults they have a right to privacy. You people come across as authoritarian control freaks. FYI - mom said she was looking through her daughter's iPod, not phone.