Discussion on answer by Physics-Compute: How to deal with unwanted attention at the swimming pool?

"Your first encounter played out very much like phase 1 of a pursuing game where he lets you know his intentions." What part of "no" ten times plus an explicit "I'm not interested" could possibly give you the impression that there was any doubt? This sounds an awful lot like "guys will be guys and it's up to women to seal themselves off, and even then they'll have to put up with some crap because maybe they don't mean it".