Discussion on answer by MakorDal: 5yrs old being bossy... Is this too much or tolerable at this age?

@jf328 I was going to write an extra answer but this one covers 80% of what I think. I am however surprised to see your question "Is my daughters behaviour acceptable" when you've stated that you won't accept it when it happens around you. I'd suggest you make extra effort to be consistent around these habits because you can encourage them by mistake if you're not.

@ReinstateMonicaSackTheStaff -1 on your comment, because 5yo children should be taught to involve adults when they don't know how to resolve a conflict with another 5yo.