how the heck one is supposed to work with widgets in customizer? code is completely different, normal hooks don't fire, no hooks in sight in general...
I already killed it in customizer... issue is I need timestamp in instance so it acts as salt for cache and customizer processed instance completely differently
thinking maybe I can unpack and repack instance in ajax hook before customizer update routine gets to it...
@Rarst hmm now I see what you trying to do and you are probably right about that specific filter not firing. I guess that the customizer surpresses all writes to the DB which means also the update calbacks, until the actual save is done
btw, the possible point of failure with repackaging is the changeset of 4.7. You will probably not have the data in a post variable, but maybe just a direct option update (just assuming how that feature works)
.... but as much as it is fun to reverse engineer the customizer, it is bed time for me. good luck with that