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Q: Losing interest in girl I date because too slow dating

2:08 PM

Ugh, now this is just sleazy

I am currently dating a girl (19) who I (21) really like. She really does look good and has a great character. And one thing, I actually at first really liked is turning kinda sour for me right now. She, as we all, had bad experiences because she went into a relationship too fast, and therefore ...

@TheSnarkKnight Be nice! :P

I don't see what's wrong with 'I feel I need to meet her more often to create a better bond'

@Tinkeringbell that was the nice version. It's about her not putting out, not "meeting". "I'll lose interest"? bah. I hope my daughters never meet anyone like that, and if they do, that he ends up walking funny for a while.

I hate "advice for the lovelorn" questions.

@TheSnarkKnight I requested clarification on that point... being afraid you'll lose interest because you're not bonding is a valid concern?

Really, they're not after sex, just after forming a bond ...

or in this case it's more like "advice for the horndog."

@Tinkeringbell "going to slow" means only one thing, and it ain't about bonding, it's about booty

You know what... I'm not going to argue this any further. The OP clarified they weren't after sex, but that they want to meet up more often, and I'm going to leave it at that. Trust me, there's more disgusting guys around.

Then edit it if you think there's a better way to phrase it.

2:13 PM

unless I'm so old at this point I've forgotten everything.

@Tinkeringbell er, thanks. You actually cleared that up for me. Can you delete that comment for me please.

@TheSnarkKnight Huh? the chat messages? Your comment already on the question already seems to be gone?

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3:07 PM

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5:56 PM

I'm puzzled why you feel so strongly that she should only interact with other people on her husbands terms. Maybe I'm misunderstanding you, but as it stands it seems dismissive of her own agency. of course you should only be in contact with someone in a situation you are comfortable in, but it seems strange to be so protective of a marriage that doesn't involve you directly. — Spagirl 1 min ago

#10722 Spagirl (4951 rep) | Q: How can one stop dubious advances of a married former partner without hurting them a lot? (score: 2) | posted 1 hours ago by Hannibal (13 rep) | edited 13 minutes ago by Hannibal (13 rep)

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6:34 PM

We can't tell what you should or shouldn't do. That is something you need to decide for yourself. — sphennings 1 min ago

#10728 sphennings (2655 rep) | Q: What are the expectations for my parents' retirement parties? (score: 1) | posted 3 minutes ago by mathewb (106 rep) | edited 26 seconds ago by Anne Daunted (8510 rep)

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6:48 PM

Can you edit your question to be about interpersonal skills instead about what you should or shouldn't do? — sphennings 2 mins ago

#10728 sphennings (2655 rep) | Q: What are the expectations for my parents' retirement parties? (score: 1) | posted 17 minutes ago by mathewb (106 rep) | edited 14 minutes ago by Anne Daunted (8510 rep)

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