While the 'openness' of this question may be welcomed, I share the concern of @Catija. Looking at this from an 'equality' point of view can I ask: would the same level of detail be permitted if the OP were heterosexual? I refer to the expression "anal intercourse". Would a heterosexual male poster be permitted to describe which female orifice was penetrated during their intercourse? I'm sure that homosexual members of the community would want to be treated the same. —
Astralbee 6 hours ago