@TheMan ok, well if I understand correctly, you can use momentum conservation to justify both parts. It seems like you didn't in the first part. So try thinking about that first question in terms of conservation of total momentum.
@DavidZ Momentum change = Mass x Velocity, right? Therefore since the question is asking about the momentum change of the two skaters, it is possible that the heavier skater is moving at a slower speed and the lighter skater is moving at a higher speed, therefore they would both have the same momentum change. However, it is also possible that they don't, therefore having a different momentum change, which is why I think the answer is D. This is my thought process.
However, since you said that momentum conservation can be used to justify this question, how do you justify it?
I would guess that's why they made the problem about ice skaters rather than ballet dancers. I guess you can't be absolutely sure what the intended model was, but it seems like a reasonable assumption.
you also need to think about this: what is the system under consideration?
When you talk about momentum conservation, you always need to have a system in mind, for which momentum will be conserved (or not). What's the system in this case?
That is true, but that's just the general law of conservation of momentum (when the net external force is zero). What do you know about the final momentum of this system specifically?