Ok, first easy example: Given a nondegenerate bilinear form $b$ with values in $\mathbb R^n$ on a real, finitedimensional vectorspace $V$, the set of $x \in V$ s.t. $b(x,x) = c$ for $c \neq 0$ is automatically a smooth manifold. Describe its tangent space. Do all this without ever refering to coordinate charts.
Hint: Calculate the differential of $b$. The answer is also called the "product rule".
Derive from that, that $\mathbb S^n$, $\mathbb H^n$ and $O(n)$ are manifolds and describe their tangent spaces with what you showed above.