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7:00 PM
J-Team was tied with FPX for first place last night when I checked my pick'ems and I had those two at 1st and 2nd.
 
@Sterno But what if you just want to play Bad Rats with others?
Wouldn't having a place where people gather for that sort of thing be helpful?
I know I'd prefer playing Monster Hunter with people from here than randoms.
I think providing a gathering space for people to find others to game with would help.
 
@Yuuki FPX and JTeam were both 2-1, and GAM and Splyce were both 1-2, so not a huge gap
 
I agree, I'd like to be a part of a community rather than just gaming alone anyway. If I can join a chat room while I'm playing a single player game I would
 
I usually have one or two non-Arqade friends online whenever I get home, so I'm rarely free to play stuff.
 
@FoxMcCloud imagine. multiplayer skyrim
 
7:04 PM
@Dragonrage Isn't that just ESO?
 
I can't say I'm that familiar with Discord, but doesn't it have a way of facilitating grouping for games?
 
@Dragonrage i played skyrim together for a while, when it worked
 
@Frank Well, there's a user list and you can choose to display which game you're currently playing as your status.
 
@Yuuki please don't mention ESO, i dont want to get back into it again lol
 
Some games have Discord integration, I think, where you can join games via a Discord context menu.
 
7:06 PM
Warframe is getting Railjacks soon, and each clan can have one. We have an Arqade clan, so a good way to organize that would be great.
(Railjacks are big, multi-crew spaceships with which a team has to work together to accomplish the missions)
Seems like a perfect thing to have a good way to organize that.
 
@Yuuki doesnt it have a monthly fee?
 
@Dragonrage not anymore
 
@Batophobia oh hey long time no see
 
howdy
 
It does have plenty of lootboxes and microtransactions though.
Annoyingly so.
So far, they're ignorable but I have no idea how long that's going to last.
 
7:10 PM
well keeping people out is a sure way to not allow it to grow, so its no wonder why people dont use it
 
I ended up getting bored with ESO, but I think it's more a problem between me and MMOs
 
@FoxMcCloud If you're talking about the Discord server, nobody's keeping anyone out of it.
IIRC, there was also a conscious decision to avoid text-based chatting in there as that's the whole reason why this place exists.
 
Hello
 
Yeah that's kind of the main thing
 
whats the difference
 
7:13 PM
we also killed a bunch of links a few months ago because spammers got hold of one of them
 
Hello?
 
@FoxMcCloud Exactly, why should you text chat in Discord when you text chat here?
 
How are things?
 
It was indeed always designed primarily for voice
to try and prevent siloing parts of the community
 
7:15 PM
things are cold
 
My office is cold
It's terrible
 
My desk is along the outside wall.
It gets cold.
I have a heater.
 
Since you're right, the discord isn't well-advertised or as well moderated (though I have it set to all messages alert so I can take action if needed)
 
I used to work in a place that had the air conditioner on all year, even when there's snow outside
it's weird to go outside in winter and warm up
 
7:16 PM
the idea was to grow a better sense of community, discord just seemed like the right step to take next
 
I think that's how this place is
I need to get a cover for the vent
 
It is a very good solution for voice though and I'm glad that it is there so we don't have to use RIP @Ori's mumble server
 
gloves help, but typing efficiency goes down a bit
 
@Frank Yeah. I'll come to chat and say, "Hey, @Frank, want to play Monster Hunter"? And if you're not someone who is in chat, chances are pretty darn high you're not someone I know well enough to want to game with
Or I'll have you added on Steam. Or on Battle.Net. or on PS4. Or wherever.
 
Hmm...
 
7:19 PM
@Sterno Speaking of, you should play Monster Hunter.
 
We've had those google docs with everyone's info, though I'd have no idea how to find them now
I actually bought Monster Hunter World for PS4
got bored after about 4 hours
 
@Sterno \o/
 
Bought it AGAIN for PC after everyone kept saying how awesome it was, thinking "Okay, THIS TIME I'll actually play it"
Played less than 2 hours and Steam refunded it
 
@Unionhawk Oh, I missed a lot since I set #off-topic to muted.
 
Apparently those games are just not for me
 
7:20 PM
It takes a certain mindset.
 
Ugh, I had such a good opportunity to make a "programmers vs. pro gamers" joke two weeks apparently.
 
I think the people that like incrementals also would enjoy Monster Hunter.
 
I generally play faster paced games online, like Call od Duty
 
>_<
 
More people need to play Dungeon Defenders
 
7:21 PM
@Yuuki lol
I'm not particularly opposed to adding discord as a community ad
 
@Frank I imagine it would be much better with a group, but couldn't do it solo
 
we just need to possibly cycle the link every now and then
 
@Batophobia You...can, but it's far more efficient to play with others.
 
or just accept that sometimes somebody's web crawler that looks for open discord invites is going to find it and hit the ban button
 
And/or maybe add a "contact a diamond mod for a server invite".
 
7:22 PM
MHW works way better for grouping, as you can just search for hunts for your specific monster now.
 
not in an impossible sense, but it just gets boring
 
The community aspects helps with the staying power, absolutely.
 
@Unionhawk I know some big servers have methods of filtering bots, something to do with role assignments based on clicking emote/reactions?
 
It's how @Wipqozn and I broke into G-Rank on 3U.
 
We can lobby the server, make it so that unverified users get thrown into a lobby so that any spammers can just post their sex chat thing in a room nobody else is in and then get immediately banned
 
7:23 PM
I like their free DLC stance, though
 
We literally scheduled Monster Hunter Saturdays to game together.
 
then when we at least verify that you're real you get a role for full access
 
@Frank I miss Saturday morning hunts.
 
I'm still playing World, like, every day on PC
If anyone feels like joining me ;-;
 
@Wrigglenite Pfft. PC.
 
7:24 PM
:(
 
Also, need multiplatform multiplayer.
 
Sorry, do not have that game.
 
I still remember that time you guys learned my real name because there was a bee/wasp in my room.
 
@Yuuki I remember the bee. I don't remember your name.
 
7:25 PM
"Jeff?"
 
Ikuuy?
 
But I think that just kind of demonstrates what we can do.
We're gamers. Let's game together. Chat sucks at that, so maybe Discord will do a good job of facilitating that.
 
dont think its that hard to do either, just a little manpower will get it done
 
So I added a #looking-for-group text channel that you can spam whenever you want to play something.
 
7:26 PM
brb posting the following image with an invite link as a community ad:
 
Ave
perfect
 
approved
 
Vetoed.
The picture has to be:
 
Ave
also I think I made a mistake by decoding a rando's keys they posted to twitter.
 
you do that for a living? its beautiful
 
7:28 PM
that's +1 so far still
 
Could i join?
 
 
I'll call that a victory even if the threshold to be published is like +5
 
Ave
got a "Y’all these internet men are crazy, these fools just duplicated her house key😳😳😳😳😳😳💀💀💀"
and a "are y'all planning a robbery in the replies wtf is goin on here"
 
7:29 PM
Um..
 
Ave
and "Yall tryna duplicate the key and rob her "
 
The internet is also the one that thought they should raid area 51, so....
 
General rule: do not post a picture of your house key online.
 
Very true.
 
Keys are standardized so it's pretty easy for a moderately-skilled locksmith to figure out how to make of a copy of your key based on a picture.
 
Ave
7:30 PM
or a bored ave
 
I went to the dentist today and got my ground down front teeth filled back in and it feels weird as fuck
 
Even more general rule: do not post a picture of your <anything you'd prefer to stay safe and/or secret> online.
 
Ave
7:32 PM
Also your surroundings can be traced back to you, if you're worried about that :)
Stick to generic backgrounds for your pictures.
 
@Ave wew stalkers finding people via reflections in their eyes
@Ave Also generic foregrounds because ^
 
Be secretive, or generate a fake IS
ID, I meant
 
Ave
oh yeah I have one
 
tl;dr take all your pictures in a windowless, white-walled room
 
Or set your location to some other country even when you're very clearly just in your backyard that's the same fence as when you claimed to be in istanbul or whatever
 
7:34 PM
or just move everytime you post a picture
 
Or be like me and live in Skyrim
 
Ave
damn I can't find it
but I had a pic of me edited into the jorgi passport
 
And wear Daedric armir
 
@Frank i know it, though thats because im also in @Yuuki's discord where he uses it as his display name
i think only @GodEmperorDune knows my name
 
Can confirm it’s Dr. A G Onrage
 
7:49 PM
You sure it's not Dr. AG Orange?
 
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Q: What is the setting "Evil Triangle" in Despotism 3k for?

ChristianIn the game Despotism 3k you play an evil AI enslaving humans. There is a setting "Evil Triangle". Does it do anything more than changing the background?

 
@Dragonrage Well, since you're such a calming person, I know your real name because you're such a "Drag On Rage".
 
8:17 PM
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8:54 PM
@Batophobia I played the hell out of the original dungeon defenders
I played almost exclusively solo though so I never beat some of the end game challenges (most) which were literally impossible solo
 
@GnomeSlice The community is pretty good for random team ups
 
@Ave Admitting to a federal crime in a public chatroom is always fun
@Batophobia I just assumed the first game had shut down, especially after DD2 and Dad remastered or whatever
Which I understand was crap
I never got into DD2. I think they announced a new title recently?
 
DD1 is still going
 
Word
 
They made a kickstarter for DD Awakened
 
8:57 PM
Yeah that
 
which is basically a remake/redesign of DD1
 
Somebody came into my lobby in dungeon Defenders 1 when I was really new to it and gifted me 4 billion mana
 
I remember the original. It was good, but...it didn't really stick, for me.
 
(modded I guess cause max is 999,999 but it worked)
 
but they let the community take over patching/updates on DD1 so some mod levels and gear is in the ranked mode now
 
8:58 PM
So like the entire time I played I just upgraded whatever I wanted
Which was dope
I had all the dlc chars too but I never unlocked any of the adults cause you had to beat that crystal dimension challenge and it was impossible solo
Female Knight was the best. So fast
 
yea, I remember when nightmare mode first came out and it was impossible
 
I liked carefully placing every tower myself which is why I didn't like playing with others
I would spend like an hour on a mission sometimes
 
I do that in Warframe when I'm trying to collect resources.
 
I'd switch between all the classes and use a little of everything
I like tower defense
 
Just go private game, and then scour the whole map for stuff.
 
9:03 PM
I keep wanting to get into Warframe, but every random match is like a speedrun of the level
 
Yeah, most often people are running the level to get the completion rewards.
So wanting to go slow means you have to play solo.
 
Only only played Warframe solo
 
The longer ones are usually things like Extraction, Interception, Survival, and Defense missions, where the rewards increase the more phases you complete.
 
@Batophobia its part of the territory. most of it is about getting loot, and getting loot as efficiently as possible, so everyone is building to try and complete each mission as quickly as possible in order to max loot gains
 
@Batophobia play solo until you get the basics figured out, then join public and speedrun for gains
 
9:14 PM
though, some modes like survival are played longer, because more enemies spawn the longer you go, so your odds to get loot goes up
 
9:57 PM
So I've started playing universal paperclips.
And I think I've made a mistake.
I need I need some professionals to assess where I'm at:
I've been making pretty steady progress for hours, but now I've totally stalled out.
 
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Have I incorrectly specced out here or am I missing something?
 
@RedRiderX This looks hilarious.
@Lazers2.0 Are you a bot, posting all new questions?
 
It does tell quite a story
@Cerberus Yes
 
user15026
@Cerberus yep, Lazers is a question bot
 
10:06 PM
Ah, OK!
 
user15026
there's a meta one too
 
Thanks.
And there I thought someone liked my question. cries
I'm so happy about Six Ages I want to share it with the world!
Have you played King of Dragon Pass?
 
@Ash i thought lazers was dead, due to someone cough ash cough killing them
 
user15026
@Dragonrage hey now
 
its ok, we had the tag for a reason
 
user15026
10:08 PM
It was an accident, those happen :P
 
Is it murder to kill a robot?
 
user15026
(I'm reading a book full of political intrigue and stuff where lots of "accidents" happen to people in positions of power so that sounds a lot more malicious to me than I mean :P)
 
@Cerberus is the robot sentient?
 
@Cerberus it was a good bot, so yes
 
so, in preparation to coming out to my mother, I came out to my sister first. She's completely fine with it, but she confirmed my suspicion that my mother and her husband would have a lot of issue with me. I predict a long talk and a huge falling out soon 🤦‍♀️
 
user15026
10:12 PM
@Elise yay, but also not yay hugs
 
but my mom keeps talking to me about buying tickets for her and her husband to visit us and I really need to inform her about what's going on here before they buy the tickets, lol
and if she still decides that she wants to visit after I come out, I will most likely tell her I don't want her husband to come >.>
although I imagine after finding out, he won't want to come anyway 🤷‍♀️
 
@Elise It says so.
@Dragonrage I am glad it lives, then!
 
@Cerberus yeah, I believe killing sentient beings is murder
 
@Cerberus Ah, but this is Lazers 2.0
 
@Cerberus well Lazers is dead, Lazers 2.0 lives on
 
10:15 PM
@Elise Oh, dear, that sounds like a difficult situation.
What are you coming out as?
Are they religious?
 
@Dragonrage and Lazers 1.1 and Lazers 1.2 and Lazers 1.20001 and....
 
@Elise Ow, too bad.
 
@Cerberus transgender
 
@Wrigglenite Hmm it gained sentience by eating the brain of its predecessor?
 
@Cerberus my mom kinda is, but not in a way that would affect this
 
10:16 PM
@Elise That is a good sign, I think?
 
her religiousness is more about believing in god and less about bible and actual religion
 
Most parents eventually come round and accept such things, unless their religion makes them extremely stubborn, I think. But they may need time.
 
user15026
Faith, moreso then maybe?
 
@Cerberus, hope that answer helps :)
 
@Cerberus they also live in a country where homophobia is rampant, trans people are considered mentally ill and according to wiki, is the worst EU country for a trans person to live in, because there's almost no trans rights or protections
 
user15026
10:17 PM
@Cerberus Eeergh I dislike that we are painting this as a "all religions" thing
 
user15026
@Elise oof, that's a lot of cultural baggage :(
 
@Ash I don't even know how to come out without feeling gross, because the only word I can describe myself in latvian is "transsexual" and there's a lot of baggage with that word
 
@Dragonrage Thanks! Some good points.
Have you played it?
 
it's really no wonder I was oblivious about myself until I moved to Canada
 
@Elise Oh...that does suck.
 
user15026
10:20 PM
@Elise offers hugs that's tricky, yeah. It makes it hard, when there's literally not the words for the things you are
 
@Ash What?
 
my mom thinks being gay/lesbians is perversion and I don't think she even understands what being transgender means
 
@Cerberus no, i just am pretty good at finding answers, usually
 
@Elise Hmm how about if you don't use that particular word, but rather describe how you feel?
 
user15026
@Cerberus It just feels like we are sliding towards statements of overall religious intolerance, when people mostly generally mean a certain subset of Christianity
 
user15026
10:20 PM
Just something to be aware of
 
I'm pretty sure with time she can be convinced that it's not all that bad, but her husband is extremely homophobic/transphobic
 
Like, over the years I've come to realise that, from the inside, I don't feel like a boy/man? I'm just rambling, forgive if this sounds bad.
@Ash I...think you are reading a lot into that.
 
my sister was telling me that all 3 of them got into a fight recently because the topic somehow came up and sister was saying how she supports lgbtq crowd and mom's husband basically got enraged and said that she's a lesbian if she supports them (like, what?) and that he doesn't even want to live under the same roof with her if that's the case
 
@Elise I'm really sorry to hear that.
Bleh.
 
user15026
@Cerberus I'm super tired, and it's been a long....week? Two weeks? so maybe.
 
10:22 PM
@Elise Do you like him otherwise?
@Ash OK.
 
user15026
@Elise confused headtilt that's a unpleasant logic leap
 
Welp, declined a second interview. Was going to see where it went, but my job just gave me a major raise.
 
but it also makes it easier for me, because years and years of depression helped me develop strong apathy and lack of attachment, so the coming out is probably gonna be like "hi mom, I'm transgender, I am taking pills for it and I feel much better now." and if there's any anger coming in my direction, it's just a one screen tap away to end the conversation
@Cerberus no, I have never liked him
 
OK.
 
but mom is happy with him for some reason, so it's none of my business
there's an ocean between us, so I don't have to like him 🤷‍♀️
 
user15026
10:25 PM
@Elise I just hope that however it goes, you get to pick the time and method, for your maximum safety and comfort
 
but if he's not gonna like me (and I highly doubt he will) I don't want him to live in my house for however long they plan on visiting
 
I completely understand your reason not to let your mother come before informing her. On the other hand, if you could get her to come alone, you could tell her in your own environment. Perhaps let her meet some of your friends. In this wildly different, progressive world, she might be more easily put into a frame of mind where she can see trassexuality as normal.
 
@Ash it's probably going to be in text on messenger with potential video call after
my safety is just a "end call" tap away :P
 
user15026
@Cerberus Or, Elise is stuck with an angry mother in her house for x amount of time
 
Yes, that is the risk.
 
10:27 PM
@Cerberus the ticket is very expensive, so I can't just be like "yeah, come over by yourself this time and bring your husband next time" 🤷‍♀️
 
@Elise Right, so it might be difficult to get her to some alone.
It is a difficult situation.
 
but I can be like "I'm transgender and if you still want to visit that's fine, but I don't want your husband to come"
 
Heh.
Or you could let her reach that conclusion herself...
Have you thought about how you will phrase it?
 
@Cerberus I also don't live in a very progressive area (way more progressive than my mom lives in...), so I'm not really out publicly either
 
OK.
 
10:29 PM
@Cerberus the coming out or the "I don't want your husband to come"? lol
 
Do some of your friends know?
@Elise Heh, the latter.
 
@Cerberus I don't really hang out with people much, but one of my coworkers knows. He's not very educated on the topic though, so other than "yeah, I'm transgender" I don't think he has a ton of clue on what it entails
 
Ah, OK.
 
I still need to come out to in-laws before I go public, because they're gonna be an issue as well...
and there's only a 4h drive between us, unlike an ocean between me and my mother 😁
 
@Frank thats nice. i could use one of those
 
10:32 PM
and I have a 1 year old daughter, which makes all the grandparents want to be more involved
 
Will you use this specific word when you tell her? Or will you phrase it more like "I don't feel like I am a boy/man inside"? The up-side of not using the word might be that you avoid certain negative associations at first; the down-side could be that she can more easily brush it off as something vague or just a whim.
@Elise A valuable ally in such a situation, I should think!
 
@Cerberus I will probably improvise the conversation on the go, but I will probably use the word, because otherwise she will probably miss the point
 
Right.
 
considering transgender isn't really "a thing" over there
probably use the word and then explain what it means to me
but I also have to tell her all that in a language that I barely use, so I'm rusty and it just makes it that much worse
which is why the initial coming out will have to be over text
 
Ah.
Or a paper letter?
And your husband/wife is fully supportive?
 
10:36 PM
@Cerberus yes
 
I'm glad!
 
@Cerberus again - ocean between us, paper letter would take weeks to be delivered and not really add much to the point
 
(I assumed marriage because of traditional parents and in-laws.)
@Elise OK.
 
I have a wife and her biggest (and really, the only) issue with this whole thing is having to tell her parents
 
@Dragonrage To be fair, I haven't had one for two years.
 
10:38 PM
she's not confrontational and her father has some temperament issues and we're fairly certain he already doesn't like me that much, lol
so there's going to be a falling out there as well
BUT we'll cross that bridge when we get there
 
@Elise Good!
The Achilles heel of parents is a grandchild.
It also takes away any fear that a different sexuality might deprive them of offspring, which fear is not uncommon.
 
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@Dragonrage Hard same
 
So hold onto that baby while telling the in-laws!
 
@Cerberus on the other hand, there's the age-old "you're a pervert and unfit to raise a child" argument 🤷‍♀️
 
@Elise Ehh at least in Canada, I would not expect that so much, especially as you have already shown how well you are raising your child.
 
10:44 PM
but yeah, since we have a child, that eliminates the whole "but think about (grand)children" argument
 
nods
(But I don't know Canada that well.)
 
@Cerberus I mean, hopefully it shouldn't come up as an argument, but they're quite religious
and they live in a very conservative community
 
Ah, that is unfortunate.
 
it's all old people
that being said, brother in-law is gay with a non-binary partner, which could either help our cause or make it worse 🤷‍♀️
 
Ah!
That should help?
At the very least as a something of a lightning rod?
How did they respond to that?
 
10:46 PM
@Cerberus orrrrr "you took away our "normal" daughter"
 
Haha.
I suppose.
 
since my wife being with a transwoman makes her a lesbian and she was their last "hope" lol
 
Heh.
Still, the baby is a boon.
 
at least we have a child already, so I'm not taking that away from them
 
Exactly.
And you are "a family".
 
10:48 PM
well, things will definitely go sour temporarily
hopefully no one has a heart attack or anything
 
It sounds tough.
I do hope everyone will accept it eventually.
So brother in law has been accepted?
 
@Cerberus it took some time, but yeah, they seem okay. There's still some ignorant comments about his partner though from time to time
not to their face though, because they know better, lol
 
@Elise This does give me hope.
I would not expect your reception to be worse than his.
Have you told gay brother in law?
 
@Cerberus yeah, he knows
I don't think he's super comfortable around me since he found out tho
or maybe that's just me misreading it
 
Hmm.
It could be cool to have an "ally" in the family.
 
10:55 PM
when his partner though they were binary and presented as a woman for some time, they were broken up for a while
and I think I'm just basically triggering some sort of PTSD
 
I see.
 
he's alright though
 
How long ago did you tell him?
 
I think it's been almost 6 or 7 months
 
Do you still think he feels uncomfortable?
 
10:57 PM
well, it's probably less "uncomfortable" and more "not as comfortable as before he knew"
I mean, Idk, that's just how I read it
 
Hmm.
 
I'm probably misreading it
 
How often do you see him?
You do seem quite level-headed about all this.
Which must be hard, with a only one head.
 
he lives with us on most weekdays for work, but we don't really see each other for more than a "hi" because of work schedules
 
OK.
 
10:58 PM
@Cerberus years of living with depression and social anxiety has taught me to be chill about stuff
apathy is my strongest trait, for better or worse
 
Heh.
A positive side-effect, then?
 
anyways, wife put the child to sleep and she's off tomorrow and I'm off tonight (night shifts 🤮), so we're gonna go watch a movie and I might paint her nails, lol
@Cerberus it has its pros and cons
 
Have fun.
 
thanks :)
ttyl
 
Take care, I hope things turn out better than expected.
 
user15026
11:02 PM
@Elise You're super good at nail stuff, have fun! :)
 
11:41 PM
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That looks really interesting
 
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