Have you considered contacting a genetic counselor? Whether you do or you don't tell him, the implications of this are quite significant either way. — faustus 1 min ago

Why the downvote(s)? — downvote-flagger 1 min ago

@lukuss I edited the question. — downvote-flagger 14 secs ago

@AlexanderJ93 I go to the gym everyday so I know the problem and i've seen it in multiple gyms. And if it is just a guy giving other guys unwanted/bad advice they wont do anything. But as soon as you mention he bothers a girl or a girl complains they start acting. This is indeed wrong of the gym, but sadly that's how it works. And if he does bother the girls (and guys) it's the easiest way to get help from the guy employees. — Jungkook 1 min ago

@downvote-flagger i further edited your question. it now focuses on you and not on other mentally challenged people. I also reworded the question to prevent it from asking how to make people do X. See this meta about that. If you do not agree with my edit, feel free to roll it back to your version. — Cashbee 1 min ago

I like this answer. I have recently had some success in reconsidering my reactions withing my relationship. It has helped me become less reactive, and happier in general. +1 for an answer that most people would probably consider unconventional. — Link0352 34 secs ago

"I'm the parent now." I am the captain now — Link0352 47 secs ago

@downvote-flagger I have edited the question to conform more to IPS.SE rules. Feel free to roll back if you do not like my edits. I have also edited the tags to more accurately reflect my interpretation of your question. Consider adding a location tag, as interactions of this nature may have cultural considerations. — Link0352 1 min ago

@Tinkeringbell good point about "best way" being subjective. I edited it to "some effective ways" I also added what I think is likely OP's goal here. Hopefully that is enough to get the question reopened, and they will respond to the other specifics soon. — Link0352 7 secs ago

Sounds like the retiree crowd that likes to give commentary at the driving range. — Eric McCormick 20 secs ago

It's the same gender. — user1261710 1 min ago

I know you have your history with your brother, and I know I don't know what that history is, but something to consider as an aside to this question -- sibling relationships are literally the longest you will have in your life. Your parents will die, your children won't be born until you're halfway through, siblings are the ones that last through 99% of your lifespan. It might be worth considering looking past your siblings flaws to have a relationship with them -- that said I don't know what your specific sibling relationship is like, so take this with whatever amount of salt you'd like. — Sidney 1 min ago

@JoeS In any case I edited my answer — Words Like Jared 19 secs ago