When you worked with her in the past, did the grade/feedback of the assignment/project then reflect bad writing? And you say you didn't discuss criticism tactfully in the past, can you elaborate what you did and how she responded? — JeroendeK 2 mins ago

Does she make too many spelling errors or do her sentences make no sense grammatically? As a person wilth dislexia I must say the experience of trying to proofread my writing over and over for hours, only to be met by questions, wheather I have proofreaded it at lest once, is the most soul crusching feeling. — BagiM 1 min ago

Hi programmer! I'm sorry to see things still haven't worked out for you. There is a lot of information and this post, and a bunch of questions marks, but there's only two points here we can actually help with: Returning the gifts (and getting him to accept that) and convincing him you're not intereted. It helps get better answers if you can pick only 1. I've edited out the rest of the questions, as they're off-topic for this site. — Tinkeringbell ♦ 11 secs ago

It would also help if you could make it clearer what you've tried to return the gifts if that's the question you're going to stick with. Why have you accepted 2000 dollars in gifts so far from someone you're not interested in, to begin with? And, if you're going with 'how to convince him I'm not interested': It seems you've been pretty 'soft' in your rejections so far, have you tried harder approaches, would you be willing to? Could you explain a little bit better why you've met him three times if you weren't interested? — Tinkeringbell ♦ 1 min ago

I'm sorry, this may seem like an overwhelming amount of comments and questions... but given some of your other deleted posts I'm at the same time trying to determine if this situation is partly an interpersonal skills problem, which we can help you with, or if it has reached a level of 'danger' where you should probably seek out professional help, and start involving the police or other people that can keep you safe and him away from you. — Tinkeringbell ♦ 32 secs ago

Folks, I edited my post, I hope you can help @puck, his background is Pakistani. — programmer 1 min ago

I edited my post but still, it is marked as closed, should I delete my post? — programmer 32 secs ago