I have social anxiety disorder (which my partner is aware of). I feel more comfortable being lovey dovey with my partner in private (such as holding hands, kissing hugging) than in public, despite knowing fully well that it's okay to do so in public. My partner says that they understand this, but...

One of my friends was having a bad week. So I decided to give him a good bag with his favorite snacks, drinks, and a teddy bear. I sneaked it onto his porch in the morning, and messaged him saying to check his front door. He opened my message, but didn't say thank you or that he enjoyed the gift....