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12:24 AM
Good night see you tomorrow awkward silencers.
 
 
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Good morning!
 
6:53 AM
Morning!
 
7:31 AM
mornin
 
Ael
7:51 AM
Morning people :)
I don't like it when I wholeheartedly agree with an answer and yet, it's not respecting IPS rules (but the question isn't respecting IPS rules either IMO, so...)
 
I exactly know the answer you are referring about :D
 
Ael
Yeah, I saw you left a comment there too ^^
 
Mind sharing so that I can see if it needs to be closed? :)
 
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Q: How to encourage my boyfriend to sleep in the same bed as me?

Ada DucklaceMy boyfriend moved into my house with me about a year ago, and for about 9 months we were sleeping in the same bed (the master bedroom). There is a similarly-sized guest bedroom that also has a double bed in it, however, and he started sleeping in that every now and then because I had a personal...

IMO, OP needs to have a good conversation with their SO about that. But we can't just edit to change the question because it would still lack details
Like: "did you talk about how this make you feel with SO before?"
 
8:07 AM
It's lacking details about what was tried before indeed
 
 
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Ael
11:54 AM
It's the issue with books that are too good. I simply don't want to put them down when it's time for me to go back to work (or time for me to eat/sleep)
"The Murderbot Diaries" by Martha Wells are just that good
(Also, the main character is non-binary \o/)
 
12:33 PM
hi
 
Hello there
 
@Syralia Hi welcome to Awkward Silence, we don't often get to meet new people there ^.^
 
@lila Aw thanks! I just wandered around the rooms and found you active here, my chance to sneak in ^^
So what are you up to today? @lila
 
@Syralia Oh nothing too fancy, just hanging around there, later some shopping for groceries, take a long walk because of nice warm weather, then worry a little about the looming lockdown due to second wave of microscopic insect, just my usual things ^.^ and you?
 
Microscoping insects? Fingers crossed for you that they will change their minds eventually about that.
I am still in the library working (and continue to produce errors lol) and later going to have an appointment with a physiotherapist
 
1:35 PM
@Syralia Oh nice. Haha yes, I call this thing an insect because many people, including me, are really tired of it, it's an omnipresent topic which you cannot really ignore because it affects our lives so much, I don't want to be a nuisance and I guess it's a way to kind of cheat our brains if I talk about the "insect", the "thing" or the "worm" instead of "covid" :D and about errors, I think it's a normal human thing to produce errors :D
 
@lila Ah i see, thats actually a pretty goot idea tho. I didnt watch the news for months because I am also tired of it and its everyday pretty much the same
And making myself sad about the ignorance and stupidty of humankind won't make anything better I guess+
 
@Syralia Haha thanks for appreciation of that idea. And yes, I understand what you are talking about, it is healthy and powerful mentality not to be emotionally invested in things that we cannot control.
 
@lila do you walk just by yourself or listening to music or a podcast or something while walking?
 
1:57 PM
@Syralia No I cannot listen to music, etc. during walks, I've tried maybe a few times but just grown up not doing that and anytime I tried to do so it felt uncomfortable and weird, almost as if I was half-blind or something, it made me realize how much I use the sense of hearing. I know it's maybe weird, but I just need to be able to hear things or else I'm anxious.
 
@lila Na I dont think its weird, people use to mute their radios in the car to be able to concentrate on parking, so its totally legit to me
 
"I don't want them to get all depressed about it and start thinking about death all the time" Just to take that understandable thought to its logical conclusion: either they've already considered it or they haven't. If they have, then you asking about it isn't going to introduce something new and unexpected. If they haven't, then it should be addressed so they decide their wishes. The kind of people who respond badly to thinking about it, are usually the kind of people who will have already been thinking about it. — Flater 1 min ago
#26154 Flater (6272 rep) | Q: How to open up a discussion with my parents about their funeral and last wishes? (score: 5) | posted 13 days ago by John (51 rep) | edited 45 hours ago by John (51 rep) | Toxicity 0.35261935 | tps/fps: 0/0
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3:10 PM
One thing I noticed comes from the fact that the element carbon has graphite and diamond as the two most prevalent allotropes. On SE, the moderators are marked with a diamond; then I realized that in some nuclear reactors graphite is used as a moderator, literally, graphite slows down neutrons and is a neutron moderator. I doubt I'm the first person ever to come up with this, but I never seen this connection anywhere before ^.^
 
 
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A J
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7:20 PM
I'm really tired and fed up with that turmoil and heavy modifications of our lifestyle caused by outbreak of the bug, I guess the only good thing that happened to me as a result of the bug is that I joined SE as a result of lockdown.
 
Ael
7:49 PM
@AJ OMG! X'D
@lila I'm sorry that you are feeling that way. Have a virtual hug from me:
And let's have a cat too @ips
 
Why the downvotes? — guest 1 min ago
#26223 guest (101 rep) | Q: How to encourage my boyfriend to sleep in the same bed as me? (score: -1) | posted 35 hours ago by Ada Ducklace (9 rep) | edited 28 hours ago by Em C (13390 rep) | Toxicity 0.043986145 | tps/fps: 0/0
Matched regex(es) ["chatty"]
 
@Ael Haha oh thanks, I appreciate that! ^.^
 
 
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11:11 PM
I looked at stats and yestoday, I mean 24th September, was all-time-high 1136 new cases of the worm in my land of origin, I also looked stats in Portugal and France too because my friends are living there and it also doesn't look good with the worm. If not Pets Q&A and Awkward Silence chat I would have gone insane long ago, I'm tired of this worm outbreak.
 
11:22 PM
I know I'm moaning and groaning and being a nuisance, but if you look closely you might find a compliment for yourself in that message as well ^.^
 

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