The Awkward Silence

3:29 AM

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Q: What to do if you suspect your Dad isn't your biological father

Looking for some advice on this or if anyone has experience of something similar. A few years ago I was talking with my parents about blood donation and found out my blood type does not match with my Dad's. He says he is O and I am AB which would mean, if true, that he can't possibly be my Dad. ...

Tinkeringbell

7:19 AM

Happy Monday everyone! :D

Mithrandir

sleepily looks at Tink

Tinkeringbell

You really need to go to bed earlier if you're still sleepy :P

Mithrandir

Considering when I've gone to sleep over the past couple weeks... valid.

Extroverted Main Man

7:41 AM

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Q: How to get to know a service staff without interrupting her work?

On friday night I was out with some friends of mine, we often go to a hookah lounge (which are quite common here in germany, I don't really know about other countries - basically you can smoke hookahs, have some drinks and enjoy your company with your friends). There was this new service staff, ...

work-environment germany flirting service-personnel

Tinkeringbell

@ExtrovertedMainMan Would that be a dupe of the cashier question?

Marcus

8:49 AM

o/

Tinkeringbell

Hi Marcus!

Marcus

What have i missed (if anything)?

Tinkeringbell

Errr... I don't think much. Weekends are pretty quiet ;)

Extroverted Main Man

9:07 AM

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Q: How to tell my wife to say "please"

We've been married for over five years now, have two little kids and our relationship is as good as can be. We both value harmony very highly and thus tend to avoid an open conflict whenever possible - and so far there was little to none reason for serious conflict, whatsoever. The "problem" is ...

politeness marriage

ElizB

11:45 AM

Happy monday! Yeah, I was checking in on the weekend, nothing exciting happened :)

A J

12:11 PM

@ElizB Heh! I know a guy who get Happy Monday. :P

ElizB

12:31 PM

Haha yeah

A J

@ElizB You know why? Because he works 4 days a week and gets off from Saturday to Monday.

ElizB

12:58 PM

@AJ ahhhh that would explain it.

ElizB

1:54 PM

@Tinkeringbell True, that. My sister is basically a semi-survivor of that, because my dad attempts to use her to incite jealousy in my mom, but my mom being herself, she does not feel the need to be jealous, she knows my sister loves her no matter what, and does not feel the need to hold my sister in a vice grip like my dad does... :P

Tinkeringbell

I'll take a few minutes soon to edit that answer to take away any doubt the kids are currency in this case..

Tinkeringbell

2:19 PM

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Extroverted Main Man

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Q: How can I tactfully discuss the intentions of an online acquaintance before meeting?

I recently accepted the friend request of a guy on Facebook. We shared a couple mutual friends, so I assumed we had met at a college party somewhere in the last few years. As it turns out, we haven't ever met, but have continued to chat with each other anyway. Recently he offered to drive 2 hou...

conversations united-states awkward-situations online-interaction

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Q: Where do you draw the line , if your girlfriend starts being friendly with a guy who is known be openly wooing her at her workplace?

She is very loyal and she usually does not like hanging around with people. There is this guy at her workplace lets call him Alex. Alex is known to be openly trying to woo her since the past several months. He was informed about the fact that she is committed. But he mocked me saying that “ it...

conversations relationships trust betrayal

Tinkeringbell

2:51 PM

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Pfft. You think you have a busy chatroom and all that's posted is comment bot ... :P

Mithrandir

y'all need to chat more

ElizB

I'm here! :P I'd love to chat haha ;)

TheTinyMan

ahhhhhh I have a LARP this weekend and I'm not reeeeeeady

how's that? xD

Tinkeringbell

I think, since it's very close to 5PM, I actually will get called down to dinner in a minute or two ;)

@TheTinyMan off-topic? :P

ElizB

Still working on those incantations/spells?

TheTinyMan

3:00 PM

@ElizB Yep :-)

@Tinkeringbell Nah, LARP is a super interpersonal activity!

ElizB

@Tinkeringbell 11am at work here. Falling asleep.

TheTinyMan

@ElizB By which I mean "I've spent maybe 10 minutes studying them so far so naturally I haven't gotten anything done." xD

ElizB

@TheTinyMan I could say the same thing about the powerpoint and 8-10 page paper i'm supposed to do by mid-august......

TheTinyMan

@ElizB That's true. LARP is also fun! ;-)

ElizB

@TheTinyMan It does sound fun! my hubby LARPed while he was in high school with his best friend, made weapons out of PVC, foam, and duct tape. Pretty cool stuff :) He taught me how to kick my sisters ass :P

TheTinyMan

3:03 PM

@ElizB That's good, has that skill served you well? xD

Tinkeringbell

@TheTinyMan Haha true ;)

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Of course, without killing or harming her. No hurt feelings, I hope ;)

Mithrandir

flag-pls, del-pls | VLQ / NaA | How to deal when you are too excited about someone you just met?

Tinkeringbell

Well, if anyone is bored and wants a Sandbox, y'all probably should go pay some attention to this: interpersonal.meta.stackexchange.com/questions/3126/…

ElizB

@Mithrandir there, the chat room woke up thanks to you :D

@TheTinyMan While you study those incantations, I've been finding out that my dad may have Narcissist personality disorder, and am debating how to tell him so that he can be evaluated so that he can be helped, and that there might be hope for him and his relationships....

TheTinyMan

3:09 PM

@ElizB Good luck with that conversation, it sounds like it has the potential to go south, fast! :-\

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Yup, my dad is in flat out denial.... so hence my debating. Will talk with counselor tomorrow about it.

TheTinyMan

@ElizB My fingers are crossed for you.

ElizB

i've already told my mom who is thankfully NOT a narcissist, and she said she validates my observations, but cannot make a definitive diagnosis, and still wants me to at least try to have a relationship with my dad, and i told her to think about this- A Relationship with a narcissist person is usually not healthy for the non-narcissist, e.g. the children or the partner involved.

One sibling already doesn't talk to him at all these days.

Introverted Meta Man.

3:26 PM

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Q: Is asking for advice on contacting an old friend suitable for IPS?

I'm thinking about asking a question about an issue that I've had for a while now but I'm not sure if our users' would agree if it is an IPS problem or not. Can you let me know what you think and offer advice on how to change it if you feel it isn't (or let me know if you don't think it can be po...

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ElizB

3:43 PM

@TheTinyMan Thanks, I feel like me and my 16 year old have had enough with my dad's attempts to manipulate and demean us, even though he says he isn't intentionally doing that. hard to nab a denier :p

TheTinyMan

@ElizB Yeah...IMO your top priority should be to keep your child, and yourself, safe. :-\ Not to maintain a relationship just because of the family you were born to.

ElizB

@TheTinyMan o.O ooops i meant my 16 year old sister haha

I'm not that old haha

Don Thermidor_Lobster Mobster

hi

ElizB

Hello :)

TheTinyMan

@ElizB I was wondering, but my mom was...young...when she had my eldest brother. xD I thought you were, like, early thirties.

@DonThermidor_LobsterMobster Heya!

ElizB

3:51 PM

@TheTinyMan I am 5 years younger than 30 :)

TheTinyMan

@ElizB Aha! I was off by a bit it seems! :-)

ElizB

so somewhat close to your guess? :)

yeah haha no worries. I phrased it in a way that seemed it was indeed my daughter haha

TheTinyMan

@ElizB Ehhh, I don't think that was that close. I'll take the miss. ;-)

Mithrandir

@ElizB heh

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Fair enough :) No harm done.

TheTinyMan

3:54 PM

@ElizB ^.^

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Spent any more time on those LARP spells? I hate to sound like a naggy person but just wondering :)

TheTinyMan

@ElizB I'm working right now! :-P

Also I meant to bring my cheat sheet to work, mostly for the drive, but grabbed the wrong paper instead :'(

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Aww, yeah. Same here. Having writer's block and a sleepy brain now.

TheTinyMan

@ElizB I'm pretty sleepy, myself, I definitely get the feeling there

Mithrandir

PSA: Do not try gapping unless you are confident in your ability to get both you and the bike over the gap.

ElizB

3:58 PM

@TheTinyMan Maybe food will help... Lunch time :)

@Mithrandir (winces) I hope you're alright?

Mithrandir

After a few minutes, yes :P

I thought I could, but...

ElizB

@Mithrandir I understand, yeah. I'm glad that turned out okay for you. I've had my share of nasty spills from my bike. Haven't ridden a bike in a while, come to think of it.

Mithrandir

It's worse when you're clipped in and take a spill, because then you go down with the bike.

TheTinyMan

I don't actually know how to ride a bike

Mithrandir

...as in, at all, or...?

TheTinyMan

4:04 PM

Although I almost had it down a few years ago when someone lent me his bike for him to practice on, but I wound up damaging it :-p

As in, if you put me on a bike, I could maybe move ten or fifteen feet before falling

ElizB

@TheTinyMan my little brother is the same way, even with training wheels. he has some PT delays, and prefers to use other methods of transportation, which is fine with us and we support him in that :)

TheTinyMan

@ElizB Yeah. I don't honestly remember much of why I never learned as a kid. I think I was just afraid of getting hurt. :-P

And as an adult, it just seems like an awful mode of transportation

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Where I live, there's no easy location to bike so I have no motivation to bike most anywhere

Mithrandir

I get around pretty much exclusively via my bike, but then again, I never go anywhere.

TheTinyMan

@ElizB Yeah, I'm not...sure where I'd go, anywhere I've ever lived. Except maybe to pick up fast food? But if I'm going to the grocery, a bike can't carry enough cargo, and if I'm going anywhere, I need to cover too much distance.

ElizB

4:13 PM

@TheTinyMan I used to live near a trail that used to be a railroad track path, and it was paved over, and people could safely walk and bike on it... but now I live in a different town, nowhere near that "rail trail"

TheTinyMan

@ElizB That makes sense

ElizB

@TheTinyMan There's only busy roads and minimal sidewalks where I am... most things are within walking distance too, so that beats taking the risk to bike and possibly get hit by a careless driver

Mithrandir

There are like a dozen biking trails around my town... I'm lucky :D

ElizB

@Mithrandir That's cool, definitely something to take advantage of!

Mithrandir

Indeed! I'm also taking a mountain biking course and learning trials stuff in my spare time.

ElizB

4:18 PM

@Mithrandir Wow, that's intense biking. My dad happens to do that stuff, it fits his "adrenaline junkie" type of passion, and he still (laughs) insists on my trying it out, and I gently say no every time....

Mithrandir

It's certainly not for everyone.

ElizB

@Mithrandir Wow, that's intense biking. My dad happens to do that stuff, it fits his "adrenaline junkie" type of passion, and he still (laughs) insists on my trying it out, and I gently say no every time....

Mithrandir

I still sometimes kinda go "oh god what am I doing"

ElizB

@Mithrandir I don't doubt that. I get that feeling at the top of the hill when riding a rollercoaster :P

Mithrandir

heh

mpora.com/action/mountainbiking/…

ElizB

4:23 PM

Very cool! My thing is rock climbing :)

Mithrandir

niiiice

Do you have a local place to do that?

TheTinyMan

@ElizB That sounds like so much fun, I've always wanted to do it! Pretty sure I'm above the weight limit anywhere that would teach me, and I'm also pretty sure that I'm not strong enough to do it.

ElizB

@Mithrandir Yeah, about 15 minutes drive from where I am. it's the best one in the county, so people come from all over

Mithrandir

Oh, wow.

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Nonsense, anyone can start anytime. i see the challenges of being heavier than others who climb, but if you are a problem-solver, you can at the very least traverse. that's going sideways on the wall, building endurance and strength. I didnt get to where I am at overnight...

scohe001

4:57 PM

@Secespitus I'm drafting a Sandbox post on our Meta to kick it off. Will it be alright if I pull the majority of it from the WorldBuilding post? Or should I rewrite it ground up? I don't want to look like I'm stealing all the hard work that went into the post, but I definitely couldn't come up with something that perfect on the first try!

TheTinyMan

@ElizB That's fair. :-) I still haven't found sites that offer training whose equipment supports people above 300 lbs, much less 400.

ElizB

@TheTinyMan Gotcha, i'm sure there's something. Maybe starting with some strength training, like pushups or situps, that can help with going into a gym and getting started. At my gym, there's a small gym with strength training items like a stationary bike, weights, yoga mats, pull up bars, etc

Secespitus

@scohe001 Sure! I am not sure you need all the guidelines at first. It can be a little much at times, and you guys might want to revisit the comments later for example to review what was good and what was not-so-good. But if you want you can of course just copy it. It was a community effort over on WorldBuilding that evolved over a couple of years and needed a few changes when participation fluctuated.

Good luck with the project!

ElizB

@TheTinyMan the majority of it is rock climbing, then upstairs that mini training gym is there

scohe001

@Secespitus Thank you! I'll be using it as a base, but making small modifications as I go

Also, how did you guys work out getting the Sandbox answers posted directly into chat?

Secespitus

5:03 PM

It'll be interesting to see how it works for you guys.

@scohe001 There's some feed, but I don't know how it works exactly. Similar to the meta-feed (introverted meta man in this chat or something like that?), but you could ask Monica. I think she knows how this stuff works.

scohe001

@Secespitus Hmm I'll have to look into that once we start getting posts

Thanks for the help!

Secespitus

No problem, if you have any question about how the Sandbox is currently used on WorldBuilding feel free to ping me.

scohe001

Sounds good, thanks! :)

Secespitus

@scohe001 Apparently the feed for the Sandbox looks like this: https://worldbuilding.meta.stackexchange.com/feeds/question/6168 So basically you navigate to the question post, then add "feeds/" before the question part in the URL, change "questions" to "question", remove the question name and you are good to go.

Tinkeringbell

@scohe001 let me know once you have the post up and running, I'd like to try and set up the feed :)

scohe001

5:12 PM

@Tinkeringbell That would be awesome, thanks Tink! I was actually going to bug you to see if I could get the featured mod tag on it for a week or two as well. I'll ping you once it's up :)

Tinkeringbell

In the mean time: Excercise for everyone in the room: I'd like a name for that feed :)

Creative is okay, but it must also be clear that it's the sandbox feed!

Secespitus

@Tinkeringbell Ours is called "Feed 4026" :D

Tinkeringbell

@Secespitus unless 4026 is a reference to something, I'm now disappointed in the level of creativity on Worldbuilding ;)

Secespitus

I think it just lost its name with the last Sandbox reset and since then nobody bothered to come up with a name :D

scohe001

@Tinkeringbell I was thinking "Playful Sandbox Man." Would need to find a good picture of someone being "playful" in a suit though :P

Tinkeringbell

5:16 PM

@scohe001 encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/… maybe?

No, this one: cdn3.whatculture.com/images/2018/04/…

Matches the other two :P

scohe001

@Tinkeringbell Ha! I think introverted isn't iron man though, right? So no reason to stick to him

@Tinkeringbell I can't access this page where I am now

I was thinking something like this

Tinkeringbell

@scohe001 Huh... just looked at the larger picture, you're right. Always thought they were the same :P

@scohe001 Sure, but we'd need to get rid of the watermark :P

scohe001

Yea definitely not that exact pic...just the idea :P

Tinkeringbell

First focus on that post :) We can get the name/picture right later :) It's just play ;)

scohe001

Haha exactly, I'm popping in here to respond real quick but most of my attention is on getting everything setup. Chances are someone will come up with something more witty anyways :P

scohe001

5:33 PM

Sandbox is live!

Introverted Meta Man.

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Q: Sandbox for Proposed Questions

What is the Sandbox? This "Sandbox" is a place where InterpersonalSkills.SE users can get feedback on prospective questions they wish to post. This is useful because writing a clear and fully specified question on the first try can be difficult. There is a much better chance of your question bei...

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Q: Sandbox is now live!

You can find the Sandbox here. See our past discussions on the Sandbox here and here. Have a question that you want to fix up or not sure if it'll be a good fit here? Or looking to help nurture the community and help increase the quality of questions on the site? The Sandbox is now open for bus...

discussion sandbox

Secespitus

5:50 PM

@scohe001 Accepted answers don't stick to the top if they are from the same person that asked the question. It would probably be better if someone else posted the community wiki answer so that it doesn't get "lost".

scohe001

@Secespitus Ahh I wasn't aware of that quagmire

Could you post a copy of what I posted then and I'll delete mine then?

Secespitus

@scohe001 Sure, just posted the copy

scohe001

Thanks!

@Tinkeringbell Sandbox feed is here if you're still interested in trying to set it up.

Feeds

Tinkeringbell has made a change to the feeds posted into this room

Tinkeringbell

I posted an answer to test the feed ;) Please don't flag it as NAA XD

scohe001

6:00 PM

Haha I'll try to resist the urge :P

Sid

Hello world.

Tinkeringbell

Hi Sid :)

Sid

Oh, IPS has a sandbox now. Good.

Tinkeringbell

How long do y'all think it'd take before the feed picks up on it?

Sid

The way things are going, I might have to ask IPS questions soon. XD

Tinkeringbell

6:02 PM

I think I'm safe enough with posting directly on main though XD

I have another one lined up for soon..

IPS Comment Bot

I'm half and half about this. I agree that some people need to be tricked into thinking that something is their idea to be willing to go along with it, but not everyone is like that and I'm not sure the OP's wife is one of those people. — Pharap 16 secs ago

#16579 Pharap (618 rep) | A: How to get my wife to remember to say "please" (score: 20) | posted 7 hours ago by Tinkeringbell (18761 rep) | Toxicity 0.20910086 | edited 3 hours ago by Tinkeringbell (18761 rep)

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scohe001

@Tinkeringbell When I posted in the WorldBuilding sandbox it took 10-15 min to show up in their chat

Tinkeringbell

I'll give it another hour ;)

Our meta feed is known to be slow ;)

scohe001

Poor Introverted Meta Man...he has to work up the energy to deal with us :P

Feeds

Tinkeringbell has made a change to the feeds posted into this room

ElizB

6:08 PM

yes, it indeed is slow... :P

Tinkeringbell

I think I made a little mistake. Restest!

scohe001

@Tinkeringbell I think you need the feed link, not a link directly to the question

Check the link I posted up here

Feeds

Tinkeringbell has made a change to the feeds posted into this room

Tinkeringbell

Thanks!

(I'm horrible at this, apparently! XD)

scohe001

Haha it happens

I flubbed it too by posting the community answer myself apparently :P

There's really no way to perma-delete so even the high-rep users can't see it?

Tinkeringbell

6:12 PM

Nope ;)

Ah well, hopefully it soon fills up with a few answers (questions), and it won't be as noticeably :)

scohe001

Haha true. Especially when it's sorted by active these should all be sitting at the bottom, unnoticed

Tinkeringbell

I could delete it as r/a, that way people will have to actually click the link before they can see an answer :P

scohe001

Haha hide your mistakes? :P I think it’ll be fine though. The target audience here is low-rep users anyways so it shouldn’t be a problem

Secespitus

@scohe001 It can become a problem for high-reps trying to help though. The 2017-2018 Sandbox on WB had around 200 deleted answers, lots with long comment chains. This lead to considerably longer loading times for high-reps.

(In the order of a couple seconds, but still definitely noticable.)

scohe001

Damn, that's crazy. I was wondering why you have kept opening new ones.

I think 3 deleted answers won't make too much of a difference though :)

Secespitus

6:22 PM

Well, we are at the third one now. And we have the new guidelines about reducing comments and try to keep the answers themselves as short as possible with only the title and a link to the posted question. This should help a lot.

3 answers are a drop in the bucket :D Once you get to 200 things will get interesting ;)

scohe001

Here's to hoping the Sandbox sees enough use to get there!

Tinkeringbell

Pfft... still no feed? :(

Sandman

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A: Sandbox for Proposed Questions

Answers containing graduated questions will be deleted. This is designed to be a repository for all those questions that have graduated. It is a community wiki answer, so add in your question here, at the end of the list once it is posted on the main site! (First posted question will go here......

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A: Sandbox for Proposed Questions

And a third answer, since I messed up two times already! Testing the feeding of new answers into our chatroom :) Please ignore this answer!

Tinkeringbell

Jinxed it! :D

ElizB

hahaha jeez wow this room is busy ;)

scohe001

6:30 PM

Haha perfect timing Tink!

Extroverted Main Man

6:53 PM

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Q: Do people really care about handshakes? Is there statistics on it?

We're often told that a good handshake is important and makes for a strong first-impression. Personally, I don't think a handshake says anything about a person, other than the fact that they have a hand. And I can't imagine what sort of person would really put much weight into that. I mean, whet...

greetings

ElizB

This seems very much like a rhetorical question, but the OP insists it is not... (tilts head)

Tinkeringbell

It to me also seems a lot like it's more focused on demographics and maybe even anthropological.. yet it could be about research on an Interpersonal Skill... hmm

Rainb

the main quesiton itself is not that bad at all

the who cares could be a be better but

I find it interesting

Catija

7:16 PM

Seems too broad... the entire world doesn't even use handshakes.

Rainb

7:27 PM

you can include that in the answer

ElizB

7:45 PM

(shrugs) did some googling and found stuff :) I'm actually thinking about looking at that research paper I found.... fascinating stuff.

scohe001

8:34 PM

Hey @ElizB, I just commented on your answer and then realized the question was closed (oops!) so feel free to take or not take that advice :)

ElizB

@scohe001 (shrugs) I will edit it just a little, I'm not gonna go to extreme efforts, in hopes that the OP changes the question...

I'm just a optimist... :P

scohe001

Yea I don't blame you, it's pretty dang broad as it stands

ElizB

yeah. Still, interesting enough for me to take a jab at it

scohe001

If only it wasn't worded in a way that's so abrasive to people who may think handshakes are important...

ElizB

Yeah, that seemed the issue as well. "Why should I care?!" yipes. heh

Yikes! need to go to the bus!!

scohe001

8:43 PM

Just the whole "Personally, I don't think a handshake says anything about a person...And I can't imagine what sort of person would really put much weight into that...who the hell cares?"

Ahh hope you catch it!

ElizB

Just finished the editing, hope that's good

yahhhh wow i totally lost track of time

scohe001

Just saw it--looks good to me!

Mithrandir

Handshakes are an important ritual with some people I know

ElizB

8:57 PM

(Pant pant... wipes sweat) speedwalking in 97 degrees 100% humidity is great fun..... made it to the bus stop. Phew.

scohe001

100% humidity? At that point aren't you swimming? :P

Rainb

no

thats not what 100% humidity means

it means something like water cannot evaporate

because theres too much water in the air

so it starts raining sometimes

itś also relative to the temperature as well

look it up

scohe001

Haha I mean it practically feels like you're moving through water with all the moisture in the air. Not fun.

ElizB

10:02 PM

@scohe001 yeah, pretty much. Started sweating right when i got outside. Im glad to be home in the AC now...

Extroverted Main Man

10:26 PM

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Q: How to handle my ex-girlfriend who's selfish and aggressive

A few days ago my ex-girlfriend sent me a text. Last time we spoke before that was several months ago when I asked her to leave me alone (we weren't together anymore but she was still texting and calling me). I'm writing this post in the hope that you can help me: Understand why she acts like ...

relationships conflict-aversion argument

Extroverted Main Man

10:45 PM

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Q: How to Handle Judgmental Sibling

My older sibling always seems to judge me and undermine my interests and achievements. We both graduated from reputable universities in our respective fields (mine being technology and theirs being politics), and have good jobs in our fields. We've always been fairly successful in our lives, desp...

united-states siblings

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IPS Comment Bot

@user19312, I do agree with what you said. And it is not just in US but in other countries also. For example, I have lived in India most of my life and the last couple of years in a Latin American country where I have seen and practiced being more courteous than I used to be in India. Here it is seen as a sign of respect regardless of age, position etc. In India, however, when people are very close, such politeness is seen as too formal. I want to suggest to the OP to understand the cultural difference of the spouse to see if that helps in anyway. Understanding the root of the problem is key. — KNP 53 secs ago

#16582 KNP (64 rep) | A: How to get my wife to remember to say "please" (score: 18) | posted 11 hours ago by AHamilton (1840 rep) | Toxicity 0.02251833

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IPS Comment Bot

11:41 PM

While I agree with this answer, often times they'll press for a response to their comment — SBDBru 1 min ago

#16602 SBDBru (6 rep) | A: How to Handle Judgmental Sibling (score: 0) | posted 32 minutes ago by scohe001 (6793 rep) | Toxicity 0.047654442

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