Yeah but what you were doing was asking people from a specific site (IPS) give guidance on main meta about what would be best behavior on IPS. That's not how it works. If you think your post got too little attention, place a bounty on it, or ask in the chatroom for main meta (I believe it's called Tavern or something?) for more input.
If you make a meta on IPS, that's when there can be discussion about guidelines here on IPS. And they may very well differ from main meta, if we can come up with convincing arguments that aren't competely out of line with how SE is supposed to work.