Hahaha, oh, so now you're just a spectator ;) That's good. But don't get too worked up over it. As I've said, I've said all that I wanted to say... Of course, rule of thumb is 'don't approach a girl at her workplace', but if you're in love and have hormones raging through your body, you don't think straight (I always compare it to puberty) --> So in this case, the man did the best he could do, he was serious about it (maybe also creepy), and didn't blurt out a 'wanna have sex tonight' to Mary ;)