@MikaelDúiBolinder, at the time I did honestly only wanted you to slow down and think on what you were posting, and at the same time, (as usual on TSE) show others that this kind of question is pushing the line on what is acceptable. On TSE we do not do that in private, there is no private messaging system and even chatrooms for two people are not private.

If I had known how you were going to take it I would have handled it different, but at the time I had no expectation that you were going to react as you have done.

Again I have chosen to react in an open manner, as per TSE tradition.