Hey, Harper. I think your answer is a bit short sighted to assume that the only people asking about these sorts of thing do so from a place of prurient interest or for the purpose of mocking the OP. Holidays are about family and family often cares and shows interest in each other. Could you edit your answer to address either why you don't think there's a charitable way of asking these questions or to encompass such a possibility? — Catija ♦ 1 min ago