Under normal circumstances, I'd be explaining that the only reason I'm asking japanese.stackexchange.com/questions/23267/… is that I'm worried that someone is wrong on the internet (or to put it more nicely, I'm worried that there's incorrect information on the internet)

but now I'm thinking "if only Choko were here to see the question".

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personally, I can only recommend grammar books because I'm focused entirely on reading

I'm not sure you'd be interested in that, though

@ari