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@DoubleAA "Matzilei Eish"? Is there a frum alternative to the fire department too, now?
 
"Large shul building block set with over 750 pieces, including 10 Heimishe people. "
@IsaacMoses I doubt it. Not as real a pikuach nefesh.
 
@DoubleAA But not equipped for Shabbat-Rosh chodesh Tevet, unfortunately.
 
@IsaacMoses Or Shabbat-Rosh chodesh Nissan
I've never understood why there has to be a frum alternative to ambulances. Just join the regular force and consolidate all the extra-ness.
 
@DoubleAA Not sure what you mean. Then what's up with the playset? Shul and Shomrim, I get (though the latter is much less interesting, since it may just be police with different decals)
@DoubleAA First responders concentrated in your locale reduce the response time in your locale.
 
4:11 AM
@IsaacMoses What's your point? With more people on the total team you can have smaller locales.
Not to mention the fact that everyone else gets better coverage too then.
There's no way this doesn't cause Eivah.
 
@DoubleAA User optimum vs. system optimum
@DoubleAA Definitely does (I've seen it on the internet, lefi tumam), but that's another issue.
 
@IsaacMoses It's not another issue. It emphasizes that they are all our users too, and they aren't getting optimum service.
 
@IsaacMoses Really?? What did they find to kvetch about now?
 
@HodofHod Why are you surprised? What about the whole Hatzala system doesn't scream "we don't really care about you"?
 
@DoubleAA Nothing. The Hatzala system screams to me "We're trying to be a self-sufficient community/neighborhood; we take care of our own problems in-house". Then again, I've never lived in an area with Hatzala. Do they refuse to treat/respond to non-Jews?
 
4:19 AM
@DoubleAA I know less about this than many, but I think the history of this is from a time when service was extra-low in Jewish areas. And now, with service being higher in Jewish areas thanks to Hatzolah and Jewish lives probably being saved (on the margin) as a result, rolling that back is a harder call (emotionally and politically for sure, and possibly even morally) to make than, say, removing a Jewish hiring preference in a Jewish hospital
 
@HodofHod Do they...: AFAIK they treat anyone who asks
 
That's what I thought. What's the problem then? It's a neighborhood ambulance service.
 
@HodofHod I'd rather not try to reconstruct griping I happened to see (amongst emergency professionals) on the Internet. Fair or not, it was clearly there.
 
@HodofHod Why not just join and bolster the existing system? Being separate draws attention to the fact that "we" don't join with the community's tzarot.
 
@IsaacMoses Oh, I'm not even starting on the fairness of it. I was just wondering what they were finding to complain about at all. I suppose I don't really want to know, though.
 
4:22 AM
@HodofHod Also, neighborhood ambulance service is not really a thing in major cities AFAIK.
 
@DoubleAA True. But not because it shouldn't be. Hatzala provides a more efficient service, AFAIH.
Neighborhood ambulance means faster response times, both because it's a smaller area, and because they know said area better.
There's no reason it couldn't scale to other communities, AFAICT.
 
@HodofHod It provides a more efficient service at the expense of all the other places' service. When "we" don't help the collective, it leads to eivah, which is exactly what Chazal did not want to happen.
 
@HodofHod Being able to saturate a small area is a function of the people in that community having the means to pay for said saturation.
 
@HodofHod For instance, instead of someone volunteering in Hatzala in a Jewish neighborhood that already is close to the top in response time, why not volunteer in a neighborhood that is well below that and could really use the help?
 
posted on May 13, 2013

Today is forty-eight days, which is six weeks and six days of the Omer. Today's attribute: Yesod ShebeMalchus

 
4:28 AM
@HaSofer and done. no one can forget the last day :)
 
@DoubleAA <Socrates> So, do you send your Ma'aser money to Jew-helping causes or to, e.g., the American Jewish World Service?
 
@DoubleAA For the same reason that I would recommend volunteering to do community work in your own community before recommending the one over. If other communities have a lack of volunteers, it would certainly be nice, neighborly, and moral to volunteer there, but does choosing to volunteer in your own make you immoral?
 
@DoubleAA I once did :( having maintained bracha status up until then. I was on the road and flustered due to a canceled flight and unexpected extra night out of town.
 
@HodofHod If it leads to Eivah then yes. There is no rule for this. You have to look at the metziut and decide, and I think here it is clear which way it comes out. It's a balance of how much your community needs it vs how much they do and how hard it would be to switch.
This is exactly what Chazal meant by מפרנסין עניי עכום עם עניי ישראל
@IsaacMoses Wow.
 
@DoubleAA "At the expense.." who says that those people would be motivated to help a community they don't know? That is to say, perhaps it is human nature to greatly prefer volunteering in a community that you know. This would also explain why Jewish communities have more volunteers: tighter-knit communities than non-Jewish ones.
@DoubleAA Of their community, precisely. Much as Hatzala treats anyone in their community. But it doesn't say to start supporting another city (or nowadays, neighborhood) to prevent eiva, ein ladavar sof.
 
4:35 AM
@HodofHod You aren't helping. You're just emphasizing that "we" don't like "them". Talk about spreading Eivah...
 
@DoubleAA Chas veshalom. Who said anything about liking?
 
@DoubleAA @HodofHod, You're talking at cross purposes. Hod is talking about absolute morality, and AA's talking about Eiva (=PR).
 
@HodofHod Not sure how you extended city to neighborhood, but either way, in a large and regulated emergency response system, things are designed to overflow and compensate for each other in nearby areas when needed. I'm not saying people need to move to bad neighborhoods, but by being part of the general system it can help improve the total welfare by increasing efficiency.
@IsaacMoses I wouldn't call spreading even a little hatred of Jews an absolutely moral thing to do :)
 
@DoubleAA Yeah. I got into town on Erev Shavu'ot, to a different airport than planned. I forget what path my bags ended up taking. I was just happy to make it home in time for Chag. Then, once the holiday started, I thought about counting and was all "D'oh!"
@DoubleAA Second-order consideration. Not less important, but also not what Hod's talking about.
 
@IsaacMoses Fine, but PR to a point! We don't have to abandon working systems that are moral just because some people fail to see the morality of it.
 
4:40 AM
@HodofHod erm....why not? It's a net improvement.
 
@DoubleAA I imagined that cities today were not what the chachamim had in mind when they said "iro".
@DoubleAA Source?
 
@HodofHod For which part?
 
@DoubleAA that there would be a net improvement.
 
@HodofHod Neither were the municipal bounds of bourough park or crown heights.
@HodofHod Well, we could have the same number of people saving lives with less eivah...sounds like a net improvement to me.
 
@DoubleAA Agreed. I drew the line arbitrarily, for actual practical halachic advice CYLOR.
 
4:42 AM
@DoubleAA Yes, I have no idea how to spell buro
 
Alright, having put words into people's mouths, I gotta go. Shavua', etc., Tov
 
@IsaacMoses Shavuot Tov
 
@DoubleAA I'd argue (as I did above) that volunteering rates among Jews would drop to the same as in non-Jewish ones since the motivation to volunteer in unknown communities is lower universally.
 
I was a volunteer EMT in Ramat Gan / Benei Brak for a while, and hatzalah always got there before we did
 
@Daniel I commend you for your service.
 
4:44 AM
@DoubleAA haha I guess you could call it service. Really I just thought it was fun to ride fast in ambulances
 
@DoubleAA Also, who says efficiency wouldn't decline?
 
@HodofHod That can be avoided with proper rabbinic guidance, and because most calls are still not going to be as far from your base.
 
@DoubleAA But why should it? Why should Jews be obligated to continue volunteering at higher rates simply for PR?
 
@HodofHod לא נביא אנכי ולא בן נביא אנכי but putting two systems together usually removes redundancy and what not. Obviously an expert would have to be consulted on details.
@HodofHod Because the Talmud tells us that's what we do.
PR/Eivah is not a joke. b"H I haven't lived through real pogroms, but those things are scary.
 
@DoubleAA Agreed.
@DoubleAA Agreed. But...
 
4:49 AM
@HodofHod Just as one data point (and I know there were lots of other factors and rumors and whatever involved), but Hatzala's being a private Jewish service was a contributing factor to the start of the Crown Heights Riots
Probably the closest thing to a pogrom the US has seen.
 
Let's be practical: those weren't because of hatzala, gemachs, tzedakos, or anything of the kind. It was because Jews are "different". That's not going to change anytime soon (B"H).
As far as that specific case...
 
@HodofHod I said a contributing factor.
 
I'd be willing to bet that it's simply not true. It was invented for the same reason: Jews are "different".
 
@HodofHod We can be different and still friendly. You'd be amazed how little differences can matter when people are friendly and caring.
^^ non-specific "you"
I have to drop out now
here's the quote from gittin 61
אין ממחין ביד עניי נכרים בלקט בשכחה ובפאה, מפני דרכי שלום. ת"ר: מפרנסים עניי נכרים עם עניי ישראל, ומבקרין חולי נכרים עם חולי ישראל, וקוברין מתי נכרים עם מתי ישראל, מפני דרכי שלום.
I'll just note that I haven't yet argued that darkei shalom is different than eiva in that the former is a positive things in itself, while the latter is just fear of pogrom (and I think an excellent argument can be made for this in the rambam at least)
 
@DoubleAA I concede this. I remain unconvinced that hatzala does not fulfil this, though.
 
5:34 AM
^^Meant this to be a reply to one more message above
 
5:57 AM
By the way, if I remember correctly, Hatzala was called (to help the injured child) during the famous accident before the 91 riots in Crown Heights, but the police told them to go back to avoid confrontation with the locals.
 
6:12 AM
@HodofHod Yeah, they weren't.
 
@msh210 Ah. Speaker must have been Friedman, then (probably).
 
 
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@HodofHod Manis perhaps? Sounds familiar.
 
@msh210 Only famous Chabad speaker from Minnesota I've heard of (besides Feller himself, now).
 
 
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8:56 AM
Can anyone help me find the Igrot Moshe YD 1:8 (Or just explain what exactly 1:8 means). It should be about misirut nefesh.
 
9:15 AM
@soandos YD is Yoreh Deah. 1 means the first volume of YD (he wrote multiple volumes on each section). 8 is the responsum number. Sometimes there will be a third number listed which is the paragraph within the responsum.
 
@DoubleAA What is an Anaf?
 
@soandos Literally: branch
ענף
 
That I knew, but I meant in the igrot moshe
 
@soandos Sometimes he'll subdivide a discussion in one responsum into sections, labeled 1,2,3. I think that's what people call a 'branch' of the discussion.
Where did you find this reference?
 
@DoubleAA got it
Which reference, to 1:8?
 
9:24 AM
@soandos Good, so I gave you the right link above.
 
@DoubleAA much appreciated
As an aside, is it acceptable to answer one's own question here if they later find it (and it was previously unanswered)
@DoubleAA is the an abbreviation guide anywhere?
 
9:48 AM
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Q: If I know the answer to a question..............

Gershon GoldThere seems to be some confusion as to whether a question can be asked if the questioner knows the answer. I have asked some questions where I knew the answer and have often received answers I was not aware of. In addition as I have mentioned in the past new questions are needed to keep the site ...

 
@DoubleAA thanks
 
 
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@soandos Even if it was already answered, if you have a non-duplicate or better answer, please do add it.
 
 
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@DoubleAA, another Eiva source to go after: Brooklyn's version of snake-oil salesmen: 'One caveat, she said — the cure only works on Jews: “Gentiles are not capable of taking this.”'
 
4:20 PM
> “It’s meshuggeneh,” said Anna Dove, who runs the People for the Preservation of Pigeons Facebook page.

Seriously? Anna Dove?
 
4:47 PM
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Q: Facing Yerushalaim during Kaddish

Baal Shemot TovotMust one face Yerushlaim (or the Hechal) when reciting Kaddish,the way one should for Amida? This seems to be generally practiced; does it have a source in the Shulchan Aruch or achronim or is it a misconception?

 
@SethJ In that case,
18 hours ago, by msh210
@Daniel I definitely think there may be. Notethat the answer to the kadish question applies specifically to kadish. Ping also @SethJ
 
@msh210 Saw that, thanks. Why does that mean that the question must?
 
@SethJ The question does. I understand if it has a good answer that's general (or no answer at all), then generalize the Q. But if it has a specific answer then why generalize the Q, invalidating the answer making the answer weaker by having it apply to only some of the question? All the more so if another question has been asked about "Alenu". I can understand broadening the new one, but not the one with an answer.
 
@msh210 Broadening the new one would dupify it to the old one. That's why I brought it here so we could discuss it.
It's easier to exchange ideas here than on meta.
 
@SethJ You're right. But there is a specific reason for kadish that does not apply to other things (see the answer there) and that Q should not be closed. Likewise, there may be a spcific reason for "Alenu" that doesn't apply elesewhere, so that Q should not be closed. No?
 
5:01 PM
@msh210 (I'd like to note that the answer on the linked question brings no sources, and that I'm not convinced of the accuracy of one of its main premises.)
@msh210 As to your second point, you may be right. I might not be able to comment, though, until someone posts an answer. I don't really intend to go look this up.
 
5:49 PM
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Bruce JamesOn the Mi Yodeya page there is usually a line at the top where I can see my name and reputation points and badges, and also links to chat, review and meta. Right now, its gone. Also lost is my ability to type in a few letters and obtain tag suggestions. I had that promblem a few months ago. Fi...

 
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Bruce JamesI was speaking yesterday, at some length, with a yeshiva rav who is also involved in broader relations with the community. I told him that recent controversies has filled me with questions and concerns about the concept of daas Torah when it appears, often, that some rabbanim who are considered ...

 
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Hi
 
@Ali Hello.
 
Ali
Can someone have a look at Islam chatroom , as Judaism related discussion is going on
Are there any Rabbis here>
?
 
@Ali There are likely plenty of Rabbis using this site; however, they may prefer to remain anonymous on the internet
Hello, @AlUmmatمجاهد
 
Ali
@Daniel Ya I really liked this site , the community is so small yet so much quality content is being generated here.
 
@Daniel hello :)
 
 
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I would assume that tefilin bags have similar 'Holy Dust' as does torah coverings, but you will have to confirm wih your local rabbi. — Ess Kay 39 mins ago
 
@msh210 That's a good one
I'd always wondered about the Holy Dust on my tefillin bag
never knew what it was
 
@Daniel I assume it was meant metaphorically actually. That is, that they have some holiness to them -- which Ess Kay was calling, metaphorically, "holy dust".
 
@msh210 Yes, I know. I just found the metaphore humorous?
Why did you link to it, btw?
 
@Daniel Because I did, too.
(Find it humorous.)
 
8:59 PM
@DoubleAA commenticize and/or delete
 
@IsaacMoses Why delete? Isn't it an answer?
Perhaps it's more of a comment.
It isn't much stronger though than the other answer.
 
@DoubleAA Q asks for logic and/or sources, so no. And the insistence on keeping the joke in makes me less interested in leaving it around to try to salvage.
 
@IsaacMoses And the other answer?
 
@DoubleAA Not deletable, IMO.
 
@IsaacMoses Though it cites no sources or logic.
@IsaacMoses Gone now. Whatever
 
9:07 PM
@DoubleAA Eh. It claims evidence of absence through absence of evidence, which is pretty weak, but I think is an answer. It's not a good answer, and it wouldn't be a crime to commentify it, but it doesn't beg for it like the joke answer.
 
@IsaacMoses The question explicitly says "What do you suspect is the answer?" (which is a very lax criterion) in big letters and the clarification in small ones. Benefit of the doubt (which I'm not sure is warranted), maybe the answerer missed it.
@IsaacMoses I've commented on the answer.
 
@msh210 Benefit of the doubt goes to our evaluation of someone as a person, which is not at issue
@msh210 Y"K
 
@IsaacMoses I agree. No, I agree completely that the answer should be deleted; I was just sayin', is all.
@IsaacMoses Baruch tihye.
 
This answer has the format of spam/noise, but it's been there for a long time without being deleted. I can't understand the text on the other side of the link. Could someone who can please advise?
 
@MonicaCellio The text on the other side says roughly what the answer shouts, but without shouting.
 
9:20 PM
It says exactly what the link says
basically
 
Obviously the format of the answer is awful, but it seems like a good, sourced answer otherwise.
(If you like his source, of course.)
 
@msh210 That's the problem with Hebrew. Maybe the source is shouting. You can never know :)
 
@msh210 It'd be better to cite the source's source
 
@IsaacMoses The source's source is given as some book with a title but no further bibliographic information given. I don't see why that's any better than citing the secondary source.
(tertiary, whatever it is)
 
@msh210 ok, I'll edit it to be less shouty. What name do I use for the tertiary source?
 
9:24 PM
@MonicaCellio shtaygen.co.il I guess
 
@msh210 oh, ok, that works -- I thought there might be a "real" name in there somewhere, but nothing seemed obvious to me.
 
@MonicaCellio Nor me.
 
@MonicaCellio Secondary is Sefer Luach Muktza Hashalem, which someone may recognize even without additional bibliographic information
 
@IsaacMoses Probably Muktze, but who knows.
 
@msh210 "The 'Shtaygen' website"
 
9:25 PM
@IsaacMoses Fair enough.
 
@IsaacMoses thanks, I just added that in. (I've never heard of a drawing dreidel, btw.)
 
@MonicaCellio Thanks. Me, neither, but it sounds like fun. Like a spirograph
 
@IsaacMoses @MonicaCellio I have a couple of crayon dreidels. I don't think they draw, really, as they're hard (so don't easily leave residue) and light (so don't push on the paper too much), but I can imagine others that would.
 
@msh210 Yeah, I imagine it'd be tricky to make something that has enough friction to draw, but not too much friction to spin and precess nicely.
 
@IsaacMoses oh! Yes, that could be fun.
@IsaacMoses it would work better with something like paint or felt-tip marker, which requires less pressure than crayon, pencil lead, etc.
 
9:35 PM
@msh210 Nowadays, though, it could be done with a normal dreidel, a computer, and a projector.
 
Ooh, dreidel fountain pen. :-)
 
... and some non-trivial software
 
@IsaacMoses Actually, once you had a touch-screen, you could probably make due with some pretty close to trivial software
 
@MonicaCellio Or perhaps some mechanism other than friction for releasing the pigment. Like, it could release it though its sides by centrifugal force.
... stand back, though
BRB building an ink-jet dreidel
I'm thinking four colors of pigment, one on each side, to capture the dreidelness. The apertures for ink release would have to be just large enough that centrifugal force beats surface tension when the dreidel is spinning at normal speed.
Something would probably have to be done to prevent sloshing from messing up the spin.
... though maybe that doesn't matter at speed.
 
@IsaacMoses yeah, I'll say! Part of why I mentioned a fountain pen is that those are very good at dispensing ink with, seemingly, no pressure at all. :-)
 
@IsaacMoses --- --- Stop talking and take my money! ;)
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@IsaacMoses blink Wow.
 
@HodofHod [:) ](kickstarter.com)
 
10:02 PM
@MonicaCellio @IsaacMoses, looks like I missed all the fun (again). Oh well, I'm off to go reverse a downvote...
 
@IsaacMoses The expected abbreviated response reminds me: I was insulted/complimented recently at s'uda sh'lishis in my shul. (I'm not sure which. Actually, most likely neither) The shul serves machine-made matza. I sat down after washing, looked in the box to be sure there were a number of matzos, took one out, made sure it was whole, held it with the box, and said "hamotzi". Then I put down the box and ate my matza. Someone told me, "Only an F.F.B. would call that lechem mishne".
 
@msh210 I don't get it. What would a BT call it?
 
@IsaacMoses He'd take out two matzos (was the implication).
 
@msh210 Still don't get why
 
@msh210 I do this all the time.....
 
10:06 PM
@IsaacMoses Nor I. Maybe that marks me as an 'FFB'.
Maybe that marks you (@IsaacMoses, @HodofHod) as 'FFBs', too. (I don't know whether you are in fact, don't expect you to say one way or the other, and don't care.)
 
@msh210 Phew! ;)
 
@msh210 I suppose your interlocutor could tell already
 
@IsaacMoses AFAICT, the person I was speaking with was stereotyping 'FFBs'/'BTs' as less/more careful to do things exactly the way they were taught or the 'standard' way as opposed to the halachically-correct-even-if-nonstandard way. (Which, like most stereotypes, has some basis in truth, but is incorrect.) So I guess the point was that there's nothing wrong with it precisely. I'm not entirely sure, though.
@IsaacMoses Or knew my biography. I don't remember who it was.
 
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HodofHod I am not an expert in CSS, but it seems that the issue is in .container and #footer. I think that since Mi Yodeya (unlike all the other SE sites I checked1) is using a repeated image as a background, the repeat-x property is repeating enough to fill only its div's width. In this case, it seems ...

 
@msh210 Huh. I guess that makes sense. Have you ever heard the rule "the number of boxes of tinfoil that you go through on Pesach is inversely proportional to the length of time that you have been frum?" :)
 
10:11 PM
@msh210 R' Rakeffet would say something like "If you're a lamdan, you'll know that you can ..."
 
@HodofHod I hadn't.
@IsaacMoses The difference here being that I'm not sure my method is right!
Maybe I should ask on-site.
 
@msh210 I'd probably be marked as a shaigetz, since I don't tend to be makpid on lechem mishne at Se'uda Shelishit, for better or worse. This may or may not be related to being an FFB, the son of BTs.
 
@msh210 Or possibly an FFY like me (though I haven't done the box thing).
 
@msh210 Yes. But from a quick search of google.com/search?q=challa+in+the+bag+lechem+mishneh , I see in the first document:
> One should be able to hold the challot directly when one recites the berakha. Therefore, one ought not wear gloves during the birkat ha-motzi. Additionally, it is proper to recite the birkat ha-motzi on challot which are not wrapped up or inserted in bags (MB 167:23, SSK vol. 2 55:11 note 38, and R. Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg shlita, cited in The Radiance of Shabbat p. 79, note 18). See also paragraph 3 B below.
> The one who recites the blessing should grasp both challot in his hands, recite the birkat ha-motzi, and then cut the appropriate challa (OC 167:4). The Rema(167:14), Arukh Ha-shulchan (OC 167:29) and Mishna Berura (MB 274:2) rule that the mevarekh (the person reciting the blessing) should first say "bi-reshut" (with your permission) prior to reciting the birkat ha-motzi, while the Vilna Gaon reportedly (Ma'aseh Rav no. 78) considered this insertion a hefsek (an interruption).
^^ Second paragraph is "3 B"
 
Huh. Some days I learn a lot from the main site; some days I learn a lot from the chat. :-)
 
10:20 PM
@IsaacMoses R' Doniel Schreiber is the reason I went to Gush.
 
@IsaacMoses I wouldn't say it is obvious from that MB that the second challah can't be in a bag.
 
@SethJ 'Y'='youth'?
@IsaacMoses Thanks.
 
@msh210 Yup. Just for the sake of poetic license, I used to tell people it stood for 'young', but yes.
 
@SethJ I suppose I'm FFY then, too. Wasn't particularly F at B.
 
@msh210 Sometimes I tell FFBs that I'm a BT "just like you."
 
10:26 PM
@SethJ :-)
@DoubleAA "ואם הוא לבוש בבתי ידים נכון שיסירם בשעת הברכה" (~"it's correct to remove gloves"). I suppose the MB cite is to the first sentence ("ought not wear gloves") and the SSK / R'CPS cites are to the next sentence ("not wrapped up or... in bags"). Dunno, will have to check SSK / Radiance.
(Incidentally, I think the book is called The Radiance of Shabbos, not ...of Shabbat. Unless they're two different books. I wonder whether this is the resultof wholesale search-and-replacement.)
@msh210 Or I can be lazy and ask on-site. :-P
Anyway, I'm off. Have a great yom tov, y'all.
 
11:01 PM
@SethJ FFY?
ooh just finished reading
 

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