The Water Cooler

10:40 AM

@mag they just declared national emergency and I have decided to have a go at getting some more funding feel free to donate and or share this around. Pity I've got to give away my real name and no more secret squirrel getting cheeky to everyone, but what the heck. Anything donated I'll match as it comes in until I run out. Easy to say since I'm already throwing what I have at the problems. gogetfunding.com/nappies-milk-powder-food-for-samoa

Anyone else feel like throwing a couple of bucks at the issue is most welcome.

Pointy Haired Boss

11:14 AM

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Q: Late badge unlocking

Yesterday I unlocked the motor-board badge on the workplace site. Thing is I haven't gained any reputation in over a year: It doesn't bother me but seems like it might be a bug.

bug

Kaz

@Kilisi First! ^^

But seriously, If there's anything else I can do, let me know. It's good to be reminded that the world is full of bad situations, and good people doing what needs to be done.

11:54 AM

@Kaz yes sir, you're number 1 and much appreciated (Y)... you have done plenty. And you're right, so many real issues we can't do it all, but we CAN do something.

@Kilisi I'll get you later today

12:07 PM

Cheers, it's chaotic tvnz.co.nz/one-news/world/…

I got the ones I had over the weekend vaccinated today and on the ferry to their homes. So quiet night and wait and see what my wif brings home tomorrow. Meanwhile Kaz just made my day so I'm a happy chap

@Kilisi I posted it to my FB. Heading out now, will donate when I get home today

12:39 PM

@Kilisi when I get home I'll try to make that site take paypal, otherwise I'll look into prepaid donation options, I don't think they'll take my debit card and don't have credit cards

1:18 PM

@RichardSaysReinstateMonica @mag thanks guys, don't go overboard and ruin your own week, no obligation here. As far as I know it only takes paypal

1:41 PM

@Kilisi I just donated. Keeping my real info private please. ;-)

greetings all

Sourav Ghosh

1:56 PM

cv-pls developer advice on a specific choice Junior developer about finish school. What next?‭ - CR0N0S.LXIII‭ 2019-11-18 13:50:47Z

2:06 PM

Am I imagining things, or has the quality of the questions taken a severe nose dive?

@MisterPositive much appreciated, and no worries, no information will be given out

@RichardSaysReinstateMonica still the odd interesting question here and there

2:27 PM

Well, I'm still wearing my diamond. I expect that to be gone today or tomorrow at some point. I just wanted to thank you guys for all of the support & understanding, and generally being a great community for TWP. You've managed to escape the madness to a large extent and verry on helping the users - something that we're all here for.

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I'm going to be taking a well-earned break by adding *.stackexchange.com to my hosts file and trying to detox myself out of all the toxicity around. Hopefully at some point, the community will heal and progress past all of this. It's going to take a long time though. And I'm sure there's more pain to come yet.

2:44 PM

@Snow too many of us have become too invested in this place over the years, and unfortunately it's an unrequited love.

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I hear you. And the more you care about it, the more it hurts when things go sour.

The basic "be nice" and "assume good intentions" policies were the best, because they were prescriptive, and not proscriptive. It's always better to encourage the behavior you want to see than to try to stamp out behavior you don' t like. Once a site starts trying to police trolling, it becomes a challenge to trolls.

@Snow yeah, that's why I got so damn mad over the past year or so. I saw this coming, tried to warn people, and was even attacked over it. I felt like Cassandra at the gates of Troy.

It's hard to deal with a good site going sour when you seem to care about it more than the owners do.

I'd agree with you. The majority of other communities I've been involved with don't have this implied set of do and don'ts, they're encompassed by an umbrella of respect and generally work out ok. SE I beleive if trying to do the right thing, but the intent is buried by the message.

@Snow I hope that when (if) we get past all this you'll return. I always liked you as one of the calmer and more reasoned voices in the wider stack ecosphere, and it will hurt losing that, but obviously your own life and wellbeing come first.

@Snow the message is very insulting. It is saying "we don't trust you, and we are going to make sure you behave." Worse, it was demonstrated to be "We are going to toss you overboard if we think you might not comply"

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Whereas the old policy simply said "We want you to be nice, and trust that you will be"

2:56 PM

@Snow I, on a personal note, will miss you. I hope your able to detox successfully.

@MisterPositive you are our new Dadoo

@RichardSaysReinstateMonica OMG

I will do my best. As for me, I will stick around for awhile and see how things go. If the fun factor goes completely away, so will I.

But for the most part, this place does a great job managing itself.

@MisterPositive which is the crux of my point

@RichardSaysReinstateMonica Which is spot on FWIW.

@MisterPositive (in character) this is your personal matrix and you are trapped in it

2:59 PM

We're all adults here, and for the most part, SE has been one of the best, most kind sites on the 'net. I've seen Userfriendly destroyed and Techrepublic destroyed by the same actions.

@mag LOL -- there is some truth to that statement.

Once you start micromanaging intent, you throw the door wide open for trolling.

@mag Thanks, that means a lot. As you know, being straightforward and reasonable here isn't always good enough. You're not really part of the crowd unless you have a tendency to overcomplicate things... :D

Q: How did this question get in the Reopen queue?

Now, someone as skilled in double entendre as I, could make a royal mess, if I so desired. However, as a pentigenarian, I have no desire to engage in such puerile pursuits....

But if I did....

Pointy Haired Boss

3:13 PM

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CEO says not to expect pay increases unless you do something really exceptional. Is this counter-productive? is up for being re-opened. However, there have been no edits to the question since it's been closed and there isn't a reopen request here on meta. What pushed this question into the Reope...

support review-queue

3:30 PM

@Kilisi mind if I share the link in various places I know of?

( for donations )

6:25 PM

Hello @Snow

7:00 PM

Now that I've stepped down from moderation, I've scheduled my account for deletion - in a few days, it'll be gone. I'm doing this because I really need a break and don't want to be drawn back into things again. Deleting my accounts (all of them) gives me that closure. I aim to be away from the site for at least a year.

TWP may well be one of the first sites to have an election. The current mood on the sites means that this probably won't be without drama of one kind or another (people just don't feel that the can move on while the Monica Situation is unresolved (that may take a long time, if ever, but people still won't want to move on anyway). Please meet resistance with peacefulness and raise flags or concerns to either moderators or the CM team. Please do what you can to support Mister Positive.

He's doing an awesome job of holding the fort and supporting this community.

@Snow I will miss you. The stack itself is worse off without you.....

@Snow Thank you.

In my view, we can continue to exist while supporting Monica. The legal part of this forces us to do so because it could be quiet awhile before it gets sorted out.

I have been tempted to click this particular link as it relates to your TWP account @Snow

it has the letters s t o p

;-}

Sorry not s t o p, but c a n c e l

7:20 PM

@Snow Thank you for everything you've done for the site. For all the past months bickering, know that you have made a positive difference in many people's lives, mine included. Hopefully you get the break you need and it turns out for the better for you

Thanks mag. I hope so too. I've updated my MSE post. I have no idea when my MSE account will be taken down.

@Snow well said sir.

7:41 PM

@Snow my email is in my profile, if you're interested in keeping in touch

@RichardSaysReinstateMonica Thanks. I've pinged you a short note.

Joe Strazzere

9:32 PM

@Snow Thanks for moderating. You did a great job. I wish you well in the next year and hope to see you back here after you get your closure.

@JoeStrazzere Many thanks. You’re among some really supportive members of this community, it’s good to see you still doing a great job and not be affected by everything else. I also need to get back to concentrating on work, I have a lot of change ahead of me, and need a clear head ahead of that.

10:26 PM

@MisterPositive feel free to share it wherever you want, more the merrier.