Wow, all this time I should've known that this is the vertex cover problem in General Sudoku. I knew, intutively that this has to be equally as hard. I should've thought of that before posting.
@TravisWells during tagging in unsolved instance you have a graph with possible solutions. If there are vertices with degree 3 or greater it is similar to complete colouring
Yes, pretty cool. The lack of formal knowledge (and I'm working on it, because I found a cool free online discrete math course) is what hurt my sharing of ideas
For future: state what you want to solve/prove, give clear definitions (step by step algorithm to solve subproblems is crucial), then what you have tried.