@StephenKitt gnome-system-monitor makes up for this sanity by hiding all processes except your own, unless you click into the unlabelled menu. Unsurprisingly this causes some confusion :-). If you would like to help promote the true information about gnome-system-monitor, you can vote :
unix.stackexchange.com/a/524885/29483 . Only needs 11 votes to overtake the "kneejerk" answer :-P. It is extremely nice and comprehensive for that type of answer though, so I don't want to whine :-).