anthony@Zia:/tmp$ mawk '{ curr=$0; gsub("[[:digit:]]","",curr) } curr != prev { print; prev = curr }' test
abbylove2016
abbylove2017
abbylove2018
abb1999ylover
abb2005ylover
abbyloves2001you
abbyloves2006you
abbylsm1980ith
abbylsm2010ith
abbylyn2002
abbylynn1999
anthony@Zia:/tmp$ gawk '{ curr=$0; gsub("[[:digit:]]","",curr) } curr != prev { print; prev = curr }' test
abbylove2016
abb1999ylover
abbyloves2001you
abbylsm1980ith
abbylyn2002
abbylynn1999