@Barmar Possibly. In my father's funeral I gave a eulogy most for myself and for his memory, saying things that were very personal from both of us. At the time I needed closure, and to give release to the emotions felt good. I would have given a copy to his sisters, but no to some other people who came mainly because it wasn't only personal for my father, but also for me. — LordHieros 1 min ago

There are dozens of possibilities. It would not be very polite if you brought it up and it turned out that her father had just quit smoking and she was patiently allowing him to get it out of his system. — forest 1 min ago

Hey Arthur! Not related to the question but can I contact you on any way(instagram, facebook etc)? If nothing then can I have your email address? — Deepesh Choudhary 1 min ago