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8:25 AM
Aha. Thanks for the clarification. — virolino 27 secs ago
#23143 virolino (832 rep) | Q: How do I bring up with my parents that I'm transgender? (score: 3) | posted 45 hours ago by user26766 (16 rep) | edited 38 hours ago by Em C (10918 rep) | Toxicity 0.06022037 | tps/fps: 0/0
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10:16 AM
Actually it is offtopic to ask how you should decide. It is on iopic to ask ow to communicate the decision though. You will need to decide first and then you can ask how to communicate that decision — XtremeBaumer 15 secs ago
#23158 XtremeBaumer (3067 rep) | Q: Can we keep visiting our "grandfather" when our father sees it as a betrayal? (score: 0) | posted 29 minutes ago by kuks (1 rep) | edited 11 minutes ago by kuks (1 rep) | Toxicity 0.045723576 | tps/fps: 0/0
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11:32 AM
Just a heads up, your question is put on hold now so you can clarify the things @Ælis asked. There's plenty of people here on this site that are eager to answer your question in the best possible way, but to do that it should be narowed down a bit more first. Don't get discurraged by the "on hold" status and try to improve the question so that we can also make those other people happy when they can answer it too :) — Imus 43 secs ago
#23143 Imus (4852 rep) | Q: How do I bring up with my parents that I'm transgender? (score: 2) | posted 48 hours ago by user26766 (14 rep) | edited 41 hours ago by Em C (10918 rep) | Toxicity 0.13873869 | tps/fps: 0/0
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1:12 PM
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#23139 CaldeiraG (293 rep) | Q: I am shy and unfriendly with people (score: -1) | posted 2 days ago by Soheil0098 (1 rep) | edited 12 minutes ago by A J (6990 rep) | Toxicity 0.8015894 | High toxicity | tps/fps: 0/0
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2:26 PM
Good answer, though I wonder if OP needs to go farther than drawing back a bit? I would imagine as extreme as the situation is that "stop seeing her altogether" would probably be the only viable solution. Maybe if it hadn't progressed to wrestling, staying the in the same hotel room, talking for hours and right before bed then that would work, but this has gone so far that I can't imagine anything short of termination of the relationship would reassure most significant others. — bob 43 secs ago
#16445 bob (586 rep) | A: How to convince my wife that my best friend and I are just friends? (score: 437) | posted 458 days ago by Upper_Case (14784 rep) | edited 454 days ago by Upper_Case (14784 rep) | Toxicity 0.22781372 | Comment on inactive post | tps/fps: 0/0
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6:11 PM
Hi and welcome! I see that you're new to IPS.SE. I hope you don't mind taking quick tour of our site to understand more about it. For your answer, people, including me think that it is not a good interpersonal advice/answer about how to tackle the problem stated in the question. Please edit it appropriately to correct the mistakes suggested in How do I write a good answer?ankii 16 secs ago
#23163 ankii (884 rep) | A: How do I help break the ice between Alice and Bob after past drama? (score: -3) | posted 2 hours ago by M.7 (1 rep) | edited 1 hours ago by OldPadawan (17081 rep) | Toxicity 0.118561246 | tps/fps: 0/0
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@IPSCommentBot er.. you still aren't really telling them what the mistake is. "Answers here need to [be interpersonal, have backup, etc.]( link to one of the answers in Answer FAQ ). Could you [edit] to add that?"
 
@EmC You're telling me.
 
@IPSCommentBot aw, thanks for the support ;)
 
 
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7:23 PM
About the dress situation, instead of "it makes you look fat," I go with "I don't think the dress flatters you," which places the emphasis on the faults with the dress while implying that the person in question looks fine. Also consider whether they have ALREADY BOUGHT IT. Giving advice before a purchase is much more useful than criticizing it after they have already made a decision. — Ella 9 secs ago
#20511 Ella (101 rep) | A: What is an alternative to brutal honesty that doesn't involve lying? (score: 13) | posted 283 days ago by michi (3552 rep) | Toxicity 0.4379417 | Comment on inactive post | tps/fps: 0/0
 
8:16 PM
FWIW, I don't think that being on the spectrum is standing in your way here. You have gotten a lot farther in expressing your attitude positive to the homeless person than many of us (myself included) would have, and that's both remarkable and commendable. Keep up the good work! — Mad Physicist 1 min ago
#23159 Mad Physicist (101 rep) | Q: Showing a homeless person that you care about their well-being (score: 11) | posted 10 hours ago by Ælis (9707 rep) | Toxicity 0.1910737 | tps/fps: 0/0
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@IPSCommentBot awww that's a nice comment
 

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