2:14 PM
Drawing lines makes sense, in a way
For example, I would never have started dating my gf if she were a smoker
Religion, for example, did not matter to me. I am not a religious person, and a very devout partner would probably have lead to conflict down the line
I mean, I wouldn't mind going to church with my girlfriend for the sake of showing her that I care about her and the things that matter to her, but I would not become religious or pretend to be.