@Pᴀᴜʟsᴛᴇʀ2 Exactly! But I've learned from my professor days that if I make my answer too absolutely correct, eyes glaze over and I lose the audience. It has always fasten-ated me how brilliant mechanical engineers have absolutely no clue as to how fasteners really work.
25 years ago my ex (a brilliant mechanical engineer) took me in 20 minutes from "I know everything" to "My God, I know nothing." Clamping force, stretch, plastic deformation, critical torque, anti-seize, left-handed threads, galling, bolt grade, thread pitch... the debate will go on forever, but it amazes me how old wive's tales (but not my wife) will always seem to trump the years of knowledge that people who design fasteners for a living repeat ad nauseum...