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Q: Writing quality answers related to legal advice or seeking legal advice

djechlinThis is a recurring topic here but I've not seen a meta post that calls out "seek legal advice" as low quality much of the time. I would suggest the community consider this type of advice more carefully and be aggressive in discouraging the vaguest of these answers. Legal advice that we do engag...

 
 
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10:23 AM
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Q: Are edits to answers that remove gender bias constructive?

Jeremy FrenchI recently read this answer. It was pretty good, except there were a couple of cases of gender bias being used. "He" was used instead of "They", the question didn't indicate any specific gender. So I put in a very small edit to change this. This edit was rejected as This edit does not make ...

 
Kaz
10:44 AM
@StackExchange @RichardU I think you'll have a field day with this one.
 
Does annyone know how People do the comment with: Please edit(with link) ect
 
Kaz
@RaoulMensink Can you point to an example?
 
like that
never works for me
@RichardU this makes me wanna decipher it O.o
 
Kaz
@RaoulMensink The format you need is [ text that will appear in blue ](http://URL)
 
you didnt see that!
 
Kaz
10:57 AM
@RaoulMensink ^^
 
[ link ]( example.com ) this confuses me
-.-
 
Kaz
@RaoulMensink If you're trying to escape characters, you need \
 
right
 
Kaz
@RaoulMensink basically, anything that looks like "http://stuff" will get converted to a blue hyperlink.
 
yeh but the link thingy never worked for me before, and just today it pissed me off enough to ask about it T_T
 
Kaz
11:00 AM
If you put [Some Text](http://stuff) then it will still convert to the same hyperlink, but it will appear as the text in the square brackets rather than the URL.
If you get the syntax wrong, it won't do the square brackets thing but will still convert the URL to a hyperlink as per usual.
 
11:43 AM
@Kaz as someone who has experienced REAL bias, including being beaten and told that my employers shouldn't be allowed to hire people like me, smarmy, virtue signalling like that post drive me up a wall.
 
12:00 PM
@RaoulMensink There are a couple special words that you can use in comments. I don't remember where the full list is, but [edit] and [help] are two of them.
 
Kaz
12:11 PM
@RichardU I don't think it's necessarily virtue-signalling, or a bad thing. Language is powerful, and subconscious bias is a very real thing. It's the "I'm going to unilaterally change your post to make it "better" (according to my definition of the word)" that I want to discourage.
 
@Kaz Calling the OP "biased" and then changing it to make it "better" is virtue signaling. IMO, but we agree on principle, so I won't nit pick (a rare occasion!)
 
12:24 PM
@RichardU So miracles do happen ^^
 
I was somewhat surprised by the (apparently shared) answer to this question. Is a very slight improvement to an answer not worth an edit? Or, is an answer which (in the absence of a particular reason for either) using gender-neutral language not even very slightly better than one using gendered language?
 
@MeesdeVries People try to stay neutral on SE when they ask questions
useing gendered language helps them
 
Kaz
@RichardU To be fair, I didn't read the post as calling the OP biased, just noting that some of the words in the post were.
 
I don't really get how that is more neutral, but either way, should edits not be about improving answers, no matter how the wording of the original answer came to be?
 
no
we are not an JJE site. The OP has the evaluate it and we evaluate both his question and Actions.
Meaning we can only act and answer on what the OP decides
 
Kaz
12:34 PM
@RaoulMensink JJE?
 
But then why do users have the power to edit answers at all?
 
Judge Jury and Executor
 
I also don't know what JJE means.
 
To improve answers without changeing the questions intent or context
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Because there are some things which are very clearly defined as On-Topic, Off-Topic, or routinely edited in/out of questions.
Including also simple grammatical and spelling errors.
 
12:37 PM
For example poor gramma lack of syntax
 
Does changing "he" to "they" in an answer, which is not in any way apparently about gender, and is an answer to a question which specifically uses "he/she", change intent or context?
 
Acording to our rules and guidelines yes
 
@Kaz, so would you say that edits should only be used for (1) large improvements or (2) grammatical errors? Not for small improvements of other types?
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries If you can find a way to consistently, accurately and objectively tell what people intended to convey by their language, then you'd save the human race a whole lot of trouble.
@MeesdeVries The general rule is that you shouldn't change the meaning or intent of a post without good reason (generally because it goes against rules/policy)
Any edit that you think is an improvement that satisfies that condition is fair game.
 
That's unfair. In the case in question, it is pretty clear that changing "he" to "they" does not change the actual content of the answer. For basically any rule there are difficult-to-judge examples, but that does not mean that you can never act in clear cases.
Or do you mean to suggest that the answer was only intended to be about men, and not about anyone?
 
Kaz
12:41 PM
My point is that you don't know what the answerer intended
Only they do.
 
I disagree.
 
@MeesdeVries the worlds unfair deal with it-
 
Alright, if that's where we're at, I'll see myself out.
 
Kaz
Certain issues can be judged relatively objectively. Gender inclusion and bias is not one of them. It is a huge source of conflict and disagreement.
 
if thats where we're at?
 
Kaz
12:43 PM
When a post sometimes uses a singular gender pronoun, and sometimes uses a gender neutral pronoun, how do you know which one was the intended one?
In this specific case, the original question uses "only to have him leave suddenly", "no idea what she/he was doing" and then more in various comments / follow ups.
You might judge it as obviously supposed to be gender-neutral because of the "she/he"
Except later on the OP comments "I did try to contact the old programmer. He has moved on to a bigger, better project."
@MeesdeVries So tell me, which gender pronouns did the OP intend to use in their post and are they any different to the ones they actualy used?
 
@kaz you really like the edit function dont you :)
 
Kaz
@RaoulMensink Only when it comes to my own stuff ^^
 
xD Ill let this one pass Kaz :D
17 hours ago, by Christopher Estep
Something that apparently is getting lost here is that the site has rules and guidelines. Whether 5 people want to chat in comments is irrelevant. It's against the guidelines.
@MeesdeVries this is the perfect answer to your question :)
 
1:13 PM
I intended to leave, but apparently you can get pinged back across all of SE. Kaz, your framing is weird, and I hope you agree that the answerer did not specifically ponder the question "should I use he or they", and chose "he", because they intended their answer to be about men. Clearly the intent of the answer did not hinge on the choice of pronoun. Raoul, I don't see how that answers any of my questions at all -- and also, I haven't actually found any rules and guidelines.
 
@ChristopherEstep I prefer the dictionary version of it: recursion (noun) see: recursion
 
@MeesdeVries for example: workplace.stackexchange.com/tour , other than that see meta. I wouldve done it for you, but I am at work
 
I guess never generate usernames based on *anything*. I remember the story of a university which took the first 4 characters each from the first name and last name. (People like "John Doe" had their user names padded with numerals).

That arrangement worked fine until a student named Abigail Button came along. Bonus points because completely coincidentally, she happened to have a fairly large posterior, making her the (you guessed it) of many jokes.
 
@RaoulMensink [edit] turns into an auto edit link
 
@enderland i know now T_T
 
1:27 PM
Can I claim to be "triggered" by political correctness?
 
@RichardU when I say no, would you not be triggered?
 
@RaoulMensink LOL! In all seriousness though. As someone who was actually beaten up for just the ASSUMPTION that I was gay. in addition to being told that my employers shouldn't be allowed to hire people like me because of my hearing (on several occasions), I find this indignation over pronouns to be highly offensive.
 
at what post are you referring to Richard?
 
This one
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Q: Are edits to answers that remove gender bias constructive?

Jeremy FrenchI recently read this answer. It was pretty good, except there were a couple of cases of gender bias being used. "He" was used instead of "They", the question didn't indicate any specific gender. So I put in a very small edit to change this. This edit was rejected as This edit does not make ...

 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries I don't agree. I don't know and I don't presume to know. This is why I recommend caution and suggestion over unilateral action.
 
1:39 PM
@MeesdeVries Mind if I go back to anything you've posted and change all the pronouns?
 
Please go back to any place where I have used "he" and change it to "they", if there is no reasonable reason to assume that I meant my answer to refer only to men, and if you feel the need to do this.
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries The problem is: Reasonable to who?
And what happens when you get 2 different people, one who thinks they should be changed, and one who thinks they should be preserved?
 
@RichardU well, the mere fact that he said small edit makes me think we arent supposed to do that. And going back to the older discussion of rep farmers using small seemingly useless edits
 
I disagree that this is a problem.
I think that, apart from in very few cases, the vast majority of people are able to judge when someone posted an answer to a question using "he" pronouns, when they meant this to be specifically about men or a specific man, and when they meant it to be general advice.
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries And I think you're wrong. Completely and utterly.
 
1:44 PM
well I disagree that Black piet was a Problem. We both know what happened.
 
Kaz, can you give me, say, two examples?
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Of what, precisely?
And what are we accepting as valid data?
 
Of answers to posts where someone used "he" pronouns, even though the question was gender-neutral, and it is not clear whether their answer was meant to be an answer specific to men or supposed to be general advice.
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries All of them. Because it's not clear to me what the OP intended.
 
So you agree with the following: if we send the writer of that answer a message, asking, "did you mean for your answer to be only about men", that there is a non-negligible chance that they send a response, "yes, it was supposed to be about men only"?
 
Kaz
1:49 PM
@MeesdeVries Non-negligible? Absolutely.
 
@MeesdeVries what is the Problem if the OP says something along the lines of "well I am a male, so I geuss so?"
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Closer to 5%. +-5%
 
...
So your estimate is that for, say, the answer that started this conversation, there is a 5% chance that the answerer wrote an answer about men specifically, and that is why they chose the pronoun "he"?
 
I missed yesterday's drama due to being in a different timezone, but I am not going to miss this drama today. (Goes to grab some popcorn.)
 
Kaz
1:53 PM
To take some actual data from my own country: The British Social Attitudes Survey: Attitudes Towards Equality found strong opinions (that would generally be considered sexist) towards Women, Work and Childcare from 3% of respondents. And some leaning in that direction from 20%.
@MeesdeVries 5%, +-4%, with a 95% confidence interval.
 
Huh. I have to admit that I had not even considered the option, the answerer believes that all progrmamers are/should be men and therefore used masculine pronouns.
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries My point is Why Assume?
 
Fair enough. You're right.
 
Kaz
IF you leave a comment, and they agree, it gets changed.
If you leave a comment, and they disagree, no problem.
 
But then I have a question that is really more central: why do we have to respect the intent of the answerer? Why does that take precedence over question quality?
*answer quality?
Also, I disagree that that is an alternative. I find it much more confrontational to leave a comment on someone's question about something really minor than to just edit it. Same with things like fixing typos.
 
1:56 PM
Oh, the troll from yesterday is still at it, maybe I will get to see a sequel to yesterday's drama. :D
@MonicaCellio I have one question, where is your head? — Walle 16 mins ago
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Why don't you ask @RichardU what would happen if you unilaterally changed one of his posts like that.
 
That's not an answer to my question.
Unless your reason is, "taking people's feelings into account", which seems rather unenforceable.
 
Kaz
I'm trying to point out that what is confrontational in your opinion might not be the case in soembody else's
 
Oh, sorry, I misunderstood to which of my sentences this was a response.
In that case, I still have the question, why is the intent of the answerer more important than the quality of the answer?
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Because there is no objective way to determine a post's quality.
That is why there's a voting system.
Multiple people post their own opinion of what a useful answer is, and the community at large votes on whether they agree that it is useful.
 
1:59 PM
You keep dragging it into generalities. Of course there general objective way to decide an answer's quality, but that does not mean that in specific cases there can be wide consensus.
 
The virtue signaling can now be seen from orbit
 
Yeah, there's no way I could be invested in this in good faith. That would be absurd.
 
@MeesdeVries good intentions are the cobblestones that pave the road to hell
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Question: How would you establish that there is, in fact, a consensus?
Might such a system involve ... the community ... voting?
 
Voting is not fine-grained enough here. There might be improvements to be made to an answer without it needing to be downvoted. That seems to me to be exactly what the edit function is for.
 
2:02 PM
@Kaz, as an autistic, hearing impaired, diabetic, I want my pronouns to be XZERF, YPXT, and I55$$@TzIkQQQ
 
Similarly to typos.
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Except that there are objective ways to say that something is a typo.
 
@MeesdeVries editing is not for changing intent
 
@MeesdeVries To you it might be, but thats not what it is for.
 
@MeesdeVries and if you do it often enough, the mods and owners may show you the door
 
Kaz
2:04 PM
Posts are for expressing the opinions of the author. Votes are for establishing if those opinions are worth listening to.
 
Raoul, why not? Where does it say that?
So, the way I'm coming at this: I mostly post on math.SE, and have mostly read meta there, and not here. But there the overall opinion seems to be: math.SE should strive towards the goal of being a comprehensive mathematics FAQ. In particular, the question and answer quality is the most important.
In particular, that includes making tiny edits to answers to improve them.
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Speaking as a mathematician. Maths is special in this regard:
 
@MeesdeVries have you seen the difference Quality on the se sites? and why workplace has always had and will have top notch Quality?
 
Kaz
Mathematics is, by its' very nature, objective truth.
 
I disagree, math is much less objective than that comment makes it out to be, and explaining mathematics is even moreso.
*comic, not comment.
For example: even if the mathematics in a math.SE answer is technically right, I think math.SE mods would approve of edits that improve notation. And, if you are a mathematician, I think you can agree that such changes can be controversial.
 
2:08 PM
FYI you can edit chat posts
 
Oh GREAT, now he's going to argue that math is biased
 
@RichardU who mees or kaz?
 
@RaoulMensink Mees
I think @MeesdeVries is refusing to respond to me because he's biased against autistic people
I'm triggered
 
@RichardU to be honest this discussion has been ripped out of context after the 3th message
 
Are there comprehensive rules/guidelines about editing others' answers/questions? Where?
 
2:12 PM
@RichardU Also I like how he keeps ignoring my references that we dont do small changes
 
Is "she", me?
 
are you not?
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Help Centre, On/Off Topic, every meta question ever asked on the subject and everything the mods have ever said in chat on the subject. Collectively.
 
@RaoulMensink It is clear that ve has an agenda and xe will continue regardless of any logic and reason they are exposed to
 
I looked, Kaz. I did not find anything. Can you link me specifically?
I am actually a man, Raoul, if you were wondering (aren't you Dutch?); I don't really care much about pronouns, but that is easy for me to say.
 
Kaz
2:15 PM
@MeesdeVries Everything on meta under , a bunch more question with *edit* in the title. Also *change*. Search chat for "editing". And for moderator actions.
And then there's this:
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Q: Washing away apparent gender bias conveyed in an original poster’s question?

mattdmI'm a little disturbed by the edit history of and comments on the question originally titled Male seinor [sic] architect bullying junior female developer. What to do? Edit #4 has the comment "Took out gender from the question. Based on quotes given, no basis for the assumption that it is a sexi...

 
@MeesdeVries Why do you ask?
 
Because "Mees" is pretty uncommon as a woman's name in Dutch.
 
You sure XD?
 
Kaz
Note the complete lack of a concensus on the appropriate course of aciton
 
I think the biggest thing here which is hard to really address is the context of an edit matters
an edit which is "fine" in 1 situation is "not fine" in another
 
Kaz
2:18 PM
And note @enderland
 
The Chosen one has spoken!
 
I have conceded earlier that there are many cases where it is not clear whether someone thought gender was significant in their answer/question. I am now asking a more general question: whether one is, in principle, allowed to use the edit function to improve answers.
 
No you didnt, but yes they are
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Oh, in principle, sure.
 
My name is given to men about 10 times more often than to women, if I recall correctly.
 
2:19 PM
@MeesdeVries my personal thought (and I see this on SO meta a fair bit) is that the older a post is, the more meaningful edits should be, since they bump the question
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Kaz
Whether gender edits should ever be considered a valid reason for an edit is another matter.
 
Raoul, scroll up to "I have to admit..." and "You were right."
 
@MeesdeVries mees was always short for meeskje which is or atleast was an popular Name for woman
 
Its all very fuzzy
 
That is different from a given name, though.
 
2:21 PM
Sometimes an edit may be appropiate, sometimes not. We don't really have and can't have hard line rules for when is what though
 
Kaz, so you agree that the contention is really: does making an answer gender neutral improve the answer?
 
@MeesdeVries well my username isnt "Roedolf Gerrit willem Mensink" for a reason ^^
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries My contention is that you can't know without asking the OP. And it is better for the site to avoid potential conflicts by suggesting changes, and seeing what the OP does, as opposed to just making the changes, and seeing how the OP reacts.
 
well technically even that is a short Version T_T
 
Kaz
Unfortunately, I have to get back to work at this point. So I'll goodbye for now.
 
2:23 PM
But "meeskje" is also not a name...? At least, the meertens institute doesn't know it.
 
well my aunt would like to hear that XD
 
Huh. Surprising.
 
then again Old Dutch would make every Name with an adjective female but lets not go that far
 
Ah, I finally managed to find the right page in the help center. workplace.stackexchange.com/help/editing I feel vindicated in that this page does not say anywhere that the original intent or content of a post needs to be preserved.
 
Your answer is in here:
•To fix grammar and spelling mistakes
•To clarify the meaning of the post (without changing that meaning)
•To include additional information only found in comments, so all of the information relevant to the post is contained in one place
• To correct minor mistakes or add updates as the post ages
•To add related resources or hyperlinks
 
2:31 PM
Preceded by "Common reasons include:", so that is clearly not meant to be an exhaustive list.
 
@MeesdeVries what came first the chicken or the egg?
 
2:44 PM
@MeesdeVries That phrase is to discourage "rules lawyering", which you seem intent to foster
 
Kaz
@MeesdeVries Just for future reference: You can be pinged in any chatroom, even when not there, as long as you've been present at any time in the last 7 days.
 
This is almost assuredly trolling at this point, unless your company is absurdly dysfunctional. Nearly no respectable company will "let a manager go" over a single, unsubstantiated and uninvestigated report of a single employee. Let alone immediately promote a remote employee to replace that manager. In the off chance this is true, this advice is still horrible for anyone else in a similar situation. — enderland ♦ 14 mins ago
am I missing something here?
 
gimme a sec
you havent deleted the question yet?
 
3:08 PM
@enderland A manager being displeased with remote employees is quite common. The primary reason for that, though, is usually that the employee is not easily reachable to others. That makes the answer all the more absurd. In particular, the point about OP being "promoted" to the manager's role. Things don't work like that in any place with sane people.
One of the rare instances (across SE network) where I have downvoted both the Q & A on a self-answered question. :) I tend to be lenient with those.
 
Kaz
@MaskedMan Doesn't mean insane places don't exist.
I agree it's not a useful answer though.
 
I still feel a delete would be the most valid course of Action at this point
 
@Kaz Of course, insane people do exist in upper management, though I doubt they would fire a manager and let his subordinate take his place within a day. But hey, I have seen so little of the world, who knows what else is out there? ;)
 
@MaskedMan You got your own well? :D
 
I am rather surprised though the answer has 5 upvotes! Hmm, on second thoughts, crazy people are closer than they appear.
 
3:19 PM
HNQ problems
 
@muru Uhm, I still see the coworker's name as well as various variations of the username in the edit history. I am afraid this still has potential to harm the OP (especially since they seem to be in a foreign country/culture). Depending on the employer, the OP too could get fired over it if this question becomes "popular"! — Masked Man 2 mins ago
@MaskedMan you see the person's last name in there somewhere? Could you please point out what we've missed? (I'm not worried about a first name without a last name.)
 
Kaz
@MonicaCellio I saw the last name before it got erased. I'm not seeing it anywhere in the current edit history.
 
I also cant seem to find a lastname.
 
3:36 PM
@Kaz @RaoulMensink thanks.
 
No Problem :D
 
I saw the last name and actually flagged the specific edits because it was still there. It's gone now. :)
 
you can flag a specific edit?
 
No, I flagged the question and explained in the flag that it was revisions 4 & 5 and what was wrong with it.
 
ah, that wouldve been exactly what I would do
 
3:46 PM
@MonicaCellio No, it is fine now. Thanks. It appears I had a cached version of the page which still showed the person's full name.
 
And then we eventually figured out how to work the redaction controls, yeah. (Takes two mods to redact, FYI.)
 
that's good to know
 
@MaskedMan oh good. I thought we'd gotten it but then your comment made me question myself. I should have blamed caching.
@RaoulMensink ?
 
Request for change
 
3:48 PM
(I know what an RFC is; I don't know what you're asking for.)
Oh, typing at the same time, sorry.
 
redaction controls
how they work
 
RFC in IT historically means Request For Comment (at least as far as network protocols) so you had me confused.
 
my Company has had a RFC form since 1940
 
Internet > your company :) It's not a copyright.
 
just saying that it isnt weird :D
and the wife of our ceo thinks: our Company > the world
 
3:52 PM
@RaoulMensink oh, I see. No, redaction is a serious matter and can't be undone, so I think it's perfectly reasonable that it requires two people at the helm. I mean, even new custom close reasons require two mods, and that doesn't involve data destruction. But the interface is a smidge confusing and it took us two tries to get it.
 
@MonicaCellio Good, we learn something new every day, even if that is not always useful. :)
 
Interface could be improved as we have relatively few mods and even less times that 2 mods Need to do this, so when they do it should be relatively easy. but then again I and many others cant judge it so :D
 
From this episode, I learned what "poon" means, for example.
 
@RaoulMensink yeah, but the mods we have are top tier
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@MaskedMan ROFL!
 
@MaskedMan now I am curious :D
 
3:56 PM
@RaoulMensink we each learn it once and then we know. There's also a private chat room for all the mods from all the sites. This didn't slow us down a lot; it was just a bump along the way. There are other mod tools I'd rather they spend the time on, and plenty of things that help more than ~500 people that are probably higher priority. :-)
 
@MaskedMan if it's any consolation, it took me a while to get why the name "Randy" was so damn funny in the UK
 
@RichardU Oh, you don't want to know what "Randy" means in many Indian languages.
 
cmon People Spill the beans
@MonicaCellio true, I would love they raise the min rep of protected questions to like 1000+.
instead of the 10 they currently have it at
 
@MaskedMan The first time I heard the name "Ashook" (sp?) I thought someone was cursing in German. Then the Indians in our group asked why I was confused
 
@RichardU Dankeshön :D
 
Kaz
3:59 PM
@RaoulMensink What, on poon? It's one of several words, beginning with P, that refer to women in a certain way.
 
@RaoulMensink somewhere on MSE I have a request to apply the 10-rep entry fee on protected questions to all interactions on the question, most especially comments but also voting.
 
The Japanese names of "Mi" and "Yu" also get funny looks too.
 
Kaz
@RichardU Always reminds me of the scene in Rush Hour.
 
@MonicaCellio its a fee not a requirment?
 
I honestly am amazed at what offends people these days. Maybe we've become too civilized.
 
4:02 PM
@RaoulMensink yeah, that's a better word. No actual payment, just a "you must be this tall to ride this ride" rule.
 
@RichardU Those who are really curious, look up "randi" on the urban dictionary.
 
Ooh, somebody just filed Jira #49,999. BRB...
 
Reminds me of those hilarious WWE times, when Randy Orton would come along.
 
@MaskedMan Even my name can be offensive, if one of the nickname forms of it are used.
 
People where are the beans? T_T
Well I am off
Bye!
 
4:52 PM
Aw man, I missed today's drama.
@MonicaCellio did you get to create #50,000 "Just Testing"?
 
5:15 PM
@DoritoStyle somebody beat me to it, alas.
 
5:38 PM
@DoritoStyle The floor is open.
 
 
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8:30 PM
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Q: Is this question really off-topic?

Lorenzo DonatiI just saw this question and wanted to add an answer. While I was composing my answer the question was closed as off-topic. I'm a bit puzzled: although the question could have a slightly broad answer scope, it is fairly focused and it is about a real, concrete problem. Maybe I misunderstood the...

 
Need one more open vote. @enderland care to help us out
 
back open
 
8:59 PM
thanks
 
9:38 PM
Thank Legenderland. I just edited the title and cast the first vote. :)
 

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