@Jefromi nope. But that's probably because I'm not a native speaker. We have the same figure of speech, but only in a "adresses nobody" or "talk to the universe" way.

I typically use "Leute" ("people") in your scenario for mixed groups or "Mädels" ("girls") for female-only groups. The "girls" is very colloquial.

@ElendilTheTall, re. last night's match (good game, btw.!): Is there a website or similar that teaches how to translate the Welsh string of consonants into something I could probably pronounce? There are a few tweets in German that joke about it, like

> Unbllyllvblyll.

Or:

> Who wants to know how to write their name in Welsh?

@ElendilTheTall just came across this:

walesonline.co.uk/lifestyle/fun-stuff/…

Welsh swearing.

:)

@Jolenealaska hi

How are you?

I'm OK Jude. How are you?

I'm fine

Can I ask you something?

Of course, you can always ask.

I am a crazy stupid person. I have few friends

I am too crazy

So, when I find someone closer to me

Is it not good to ask random stupid questions from a girl?

This is what I asked her: "why owls are endangered nowadays?"

And she replied me:"I don't know"- (as usual reply to my random stupid questions)

This makes me sad, cos I feels like she is not interested in my random stupid questions

Stupid, random questions can open deep stuff. She might think a question like that is a bit weird, or she might find it intriguing.

@Jolenealaska then she also said, why do you ask this useless question from me

Well, in that case she may not enjoy following odd trails in conversation.

If that's the case, but odd trails are a big part of who you are, perhaps she is not up to the trail.

Exactly, does she mean I should leave her?

@Arrowfar hey buddy! After a very long time I met you. Do you remember me? 😃

It comes down to what you both need. Do you need a girl who follows odd conversational trails?

Or, do you enjoy her trails too?

@Jolenealaska I was looking for someone which always makes me happy. The other thing is, she always ask me to lead the conversation

Well, there are two things in that line that concern me.

@Jolenealaska is that something I don't need to be care about or is it just the way the girls are

@Arrowfar I'm good man

There is no "way girls are"

Like men, women are unique as individuals.

I am bit worried now

If you're not sure about your future with her, ask her. Point blank.

@CrazyNinja "I was looking for someone which always makes me happy" - that's a terrible goal.

Consider what you are willing to compromise, and what she will.

It is absolutely impossible to find such a person, ever

so if you pursue it, you will die lonely, after a string of disappointments.

@rumtscho I didn't get you what you are telling. Sorry

What I am saying is that it is impossible that someone always makes you happy

so, imagine that you find a friend (or girlfriend, or whomever) and you are happy for a while

then at some point you are unhappy

but you required that this person makes it happy, so you break up the friendship or relationship and go looking for new friends, or for a new girlfriend

@Jolenealaska she always asking me to take the lead. I know as a man, I should tread her. But I think that doesn't mean, I must to everything. Isn't it? At least she could makes me happy even by her stupid crazy conversations

it is 100% certain that it will happen again, so you will have to repeat it again and again

throwing away people and ending up lonely.

You being unhappy is your own problem. You cannot require others to take care of it for you. It is an unfair burden, and impossible to achieve.

@you are indeed correct. But she is very first girlfriend. I'm still 22

It doesn't matter if she is the first and the hundredth.

@CrazyNinja For me, to always be expected to lead would become drudgery. But, consider that she may have expectations that come from her upbringing.

There are many reasons to leave a girlfriend.

But "I expect her to make me happy, this one time she didn't, so I will leave her" is a bad reason - and I mean 'bad' in the sense of damaging you, not in an abstract moral sense.

@rumtscho would this be one of those reasons?😭

Would what be one of the reasons?

Be honest with her. Ask what you can do for her, and be clear about what you want from her.

@Jolenealaska I said it once. I said her, I need her to be more talkative person. Be open with me

But, consider this. I'll be 49 next month. I live alone and like it that way. That's OK too.

Of course she is not hiding things from me. But she is not a talkative girl

Well, ask yourself if you need "talkative".

You cannot 'change' her.

Yes, I do need a girl like a parrot who always talks with me. Cos I don't have many friends and my profession is programmer. So, most of the times I am living a quiet day

I prefer to have a girl like that who can make my boring days to awesome days

Then get a talkative parrot.

They can be fun.

So, is it?

And star in YouTube videos!

If it is her nature to be reserved, and you desire a social butterfly, you are not likely to ever have what you think you want.

I guess you are correct. I won't take it too longer.

@Stephie Google Translate has a Welsh setting

and a text-to-speech function

@ElendilTheTall one step closer to the pot, both of us.