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> We decided to put some of our favorite modern children's authors in the hot-seat too, and ask them, "If you could have any creature or animal from a book as a pet, which would you choose and why?" (source)
 
 
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Q: Suggestion letter

WahidMy name is MR... and I am a Data Entry Clerk at XYZ. I received congratulations by email dated 2015-6-3 for my first-grade performance over all provinces, and I was pleased to learn that I was to receive an award. It would certainly be encouraging to receive that award soon. Sincerely, MR...

 
 
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Q: Writing about a future hapenning with a present time narrative

SuhasiniWhat sort of a literary technique is it when writers narrating their story in the present time (in first person) talk of an incident that happens to them in the future? I recently read a non-fiction book where the author was talking about her sister and said her sister met a man XYZ whom she woul...

 
 
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Q: PLEASE HELP: Character description

user15094I really need help with how to describe, without telling, a character who is shuddering/feels sickened after reading a newspaper article? Thank you very much

 
 
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1:19 PM
Good morning!
 
Good morning!
 
1:53 PM
Tomorrow is the first day of school.
 
ah. For us, it's next week.
 
I'm conflicted. My husband is on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
 
He's been burning the candle at both ends.
I've been really annoyed by it. And tonight I have this stupid reception for the project launch.
 
what you need is a vacation.
 
1:56 PM
I feel like I should skip the reception and help him get things ready for tomorrow.
But his mom was getting under his skin this morning.
And I am not there to help.
He's tired and angry. He doesn't do well with not getting enough sleep.
I'm trying to be cheerful and positive, but really I'm pissed off a lot.
so I'm not doing a good job.
Also, I broke my engagement ring. srsly. wtf?
 
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Q: Describing camera movement in the ACTION?

Sampark SharmaIs it okay to write a bit of camera movement in the ACTION? I don't mean the camera movements such as PUSH IN or ANGLE ON. What I mean is something like the following: Through an **aerial view**, we see the man following the criminal. Would it be okay to write 'aerial view' here, without spec...

 
@KitZ.Fox speaking of engagement rings, my wife's coworker is getting a divorce after less than a year.
 
Yikes.
The friends my husband married filed for divorce after three months.
 
I took it as a bad sign that her engagement ring cost $50,000, and that afterwards her fiance had no money left to buy himself a winter coat and she didn't want to buy him one.
 
2:06 PM
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 Ouch. wtf?
 
Then they delayed their wedding for a year so they could save up more money to blow on it.
 
Didn't want to buy him one because he spent too much on the ring, or what?
 
They had a fucking aerialist.
 
omg.
 
@KitZ.Fox I guess she figured he should spend his own money on his clothes
 
2:07 PM
but...the gays...
 
What was your wedding like?
 
small
50 people
 
Did you have cake or cupcakes?
 
church, reception, cake
 
2:09 PM
Did you do the cake smooshing thing?
I was a bit appalled that the friend who got married two weekends ago did that.
 
the cake was like $500, which in hindsight seems like it cost too much, and the reception was $100/person, with an open bar, and we had a cheap DJ and limo (same company).
@KitZ.Fox No.
 
But she did a bunch of "traditional" things that took me aback.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 Was it 3 tiers?
Because if you got it from the Piggly-Wiggly, you got ripped off.
 
@KitZ.Fox it was. But it wasn't super fancy and the tiers weren't up on stilts or anything. I feel like I could have baked it myself.
 
Otherwise, that's about what I would expect a good wedding cake to cost.
Did you save the top?
 
the top tier? yes.
also the cake toppers, which we provided.
 
2:11 PM
Sounds like you did really well on a budget. We focused the majority of our funds on making sure the party was fun.
 
yeah we were very budget-minded.
 
Food, drink, music. The rest was bargain-basement.
We did cupcakes.
Did you eat the top on your anniversary?
 
if I were doing it again, I'd probably spend 50% more, and 300% more on the honeymoon (we REALLY cheaped out and it was silly)
 
My brother saved theirs, but they forgot about it in the freezer.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 I would take more time on the honeymoon.
 
@KitZ.Fox no. Because the wedding cake person made it out of chocolate, and at the time I thought I was allergic to chocolate, and my wife didn't want to eat year-old cake. Eventually, in 2003, we had that blackout, and we tossed everything in our freezer.
 
2:13 PM
At least you still have the memories...
And a good story.
 
it's funny, at some weddings they serve the cake, and at other weddings they don't.
At ours, we tried to serve the cake but the guy cutting the cake messed up and it kinda fell apart. I don't remember if I even got any cake.
 
I didn't get a cupcake until a year later.
We didn't save any, but some friends of ours served us cupcakes from the same bakery.
As well as recreating the food from the reception dinner. It was really kind of them.
 
I remember that when I was planning the reception, I read a story about how the bride had a cake and the groom had a cake, and then they had one for the guests.
I was impressed by the yardage of poly-satin that must have been required to make her custom gown.
Then I felt like some kind of bride-zilla for being catty like that.
Where did you have your reception? Some place chic?
 
at a hotel
I'd pick a nicer venue if I were doing it again
So is your husband's overtime work going to be ending soon?
 
2:35 PM
Better be. He's been working from something like 4 or 5 until 11 or midnight, trying to get this work done for friends of ours.
I'm annoyed mostly because I disagree with his scheduling choices.
Like, we should have cancelled the wood labor-share this weekend.
Then he could have done the work during normal hours.
 
@KitZ.Fox ick, 4-5pm start time?
 
And also, he offered that we could get a sitter and I could come help paint, because it was actually kind of fun with everyone pitching in.
And I didn't respond well to that.
I already felt put-upon because the friends dropped their kids off at my house for me to watch them without setting any kind of end time, and they are rather notoriously irresponsible about that.
My husband had asked if it was OK, and I'm pretty sure I said "I don't want to deal with that today" and then she showed up, and I was thinking "oh, they are out for a walk and stopped to say hi" right up to where she says "thanks, this is so helpful" and leaves.
 
And I'm in the middle of stuff. And it instantly turns into a crazy madhouse. Not the kind of drop the kids off and they play together and that works fine.
The kind of drop the kids off and now I'm assisting them in negotiating play and breaking up fights and seriously, how can every single goddamn one of you skin your knees or bash your head in fifteen fucking minutes?
We were just about to play D&D. It messed up my entire afternoon.
And I had no idea how long it would last.
And I was getting over a cold, so I just wanted to sleep.
And her little one is the one who loves to completely dismember lego minifigs.
Anyway. So the idea that we could spend money! So I could go help too! really got under my skin.
I'm trying to keep the perspective that he is thinking of it in terms of work he committed to doing, and he's getting paid for it.
rather than that he is trying to make my life a living hell in retaliation for the several months of overtime I put in recently.
He's just trying to get it done, and fast. So much about the situation bothers me though.
I need to get back focused on being a supportive spouse instead of horrifically irritated at everything.
 
2:55 PM
I'm always amazed at how well you are able to analyze how you're feeling
 
years of therapy
I am also very aware that I have some kind of unresolved jealousy toward the wife.
I know this is the case because I go on thinking binges where I trash her constantly.
 
My book order just arrived!
 
Oh!
 
What did ... oh sweet!
I love those books. Just recommended them to a friend.
 
3:01 PM
My fave is #4.
Just thinking about the title sends me back to my childhood, reading in my room with my bedside-table lamp on
 
I liked that one too. It's great for re-assuring kids that they shouldn't feel like they should know exactly what they want to do.
 
listening to classical music because five of the six CDs I owned were Beethoven symphonies
 
haha, wow, you owned CDs back then?
And you listened to them in your room?
 
one year I asked for a CD player for christmas. It was one of the items on the list I never expected to get.
I ended up getting a "portable" CD/Tape player.
 
Our CD player was in the middle room, and we had two CDs: Lou Gramm and Melissa Etheridge.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 Sweet!
 
3:04 PM
for many years it was the only CD player in the house.
 
We had a lot of vinyl.
 
My parents kept buying LPs and tapes for years
 
We had an 8-track player until my older brother left for college.
 
wow
for a short while we had a music playing thingy that played 8-tracks and 78rpm records.
it was quadrophonic
used to be my grandfather's
I guess we ended up selling it
 
that's pretty cool.
 
3:10 PM
I think the 8-track player was broken though. I don't recall us having any 8-tracks
 
I remember that by high school, we had Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers on CD. The one that had Free Falling on it.
I only remember buying 8-tracks at yard sales.
I never saw one in a store.
 
by high school I had a paper route and was spending big bucks on CDs. I eventually joined the Columbia Music House program and built up a sizable collection, for a teenager.
now all those CDs are in a box, hopefully not oxidizing.
 
Haha
I got ripped off by/ripped off Columbia House, BMG, and maybe one other one.
At one point, I had five separate accounts that I wasn't paying on.
Melissa Smartmouth and Lance Goodthrust had their credit ruined early on by my poor practices.
 
I was careful and so managed to always buy CDs at $12-$15 each, back when new albums in stores were $25 (CAD, 1990s money)
but you had to wait for sales, then buy 5 or more CDs at once
and never ever accept the monthly featured CD
then, when you'd bought your contractually obligated quantity of CDs, quit
 
I wish I had your financial smarts.
 
3:15 PM
then they ask you back and offer you more free CDs
heh that's basically the limit of my financial genius.
 
still, pretty spot on for a teenager.
 
how to navigate the columbia record club without getting screwed
 
hey, do you know how to convert json to csv?
or something with rows?
 
json is an object syntax
CSV is a list of values
 
yeah.
all of these are the same.
 
3:18 PM
oh, but a CSV file maybe has named fields
 
Maybe I can just find/replace.
 
can you run JS to do it?
I think you can iterate over the object properties
 
I don't know. Never tried.
 
something like
for (p : obj) {
   if (obj.hasOwnProperty(p)) {
      // here p is a property we can use
      csv += opj.p + ','
   }
}
I just made that up off the top of my head so there might be some mistakes. But that is the basic gist
 
Bam. Got it with ctrl-h.
That way I don't have to figure out how to set up js.
 
3:22 PM
cool
So I found a pic of my wedding cake
 
Oh!
That's very pretty.
 
yeah it's better than I remembered.
 
Worth the money.
 
the penguins on top are wearing a little veil and a top hat
 
cute! Where did you find them?
 
3:26 PM
they are part of a set of porcelain decorations. the cake decorator made their clothing.
 
Man, maybe I should figure out how to automate this. I don't like this new tool.
@Mr.ShinyandNew安宇 No way! Out of marizpan?
 
yeah
or some other kind of icing
probably not marzipan, actually
the hat fell apart so I repaired it with play-doh
 
hahaha
 
s/repaired/replaced, really
 
omg those are so cute
are penguins significant to your relationship, or you just like them?
 
3:31 PM
at the time, my wife was into penguins. she had lots of penguin-themed things.
 
Now I'm in a pickle.
I have no lunch and I left my wallet at home.
 
solution: eat the pickle.
then you'll no longer be hungry, and no longer be in a pickle.
glad I could help.
 
3:59 PM
haha
I scrounged change and bought some peanut butter M&Ms to eat while I was googling "best workouts to lose weight".
I also just picked up a new footrest and mouse wrist rest.
woo! ergo!
 
4:30 PM
nice
 
 
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6:32 PM
can't decide between coffee or tea.
It's times like this that I miss the bot.
 
7:05 PM
I'm having coffee. If that helps. Tea is quicker if you have to make a pot of coffee.
 
7:19 PM
I could use a pod.
I'm writing code!
Code that other people will see!
Once I check it in.
I'm surprisingly nervous.
 
It's thrilling, innit? Right up until it crashes on a corner case that wasn't tested and yet is surprisingly common in production.
 
hahaha
My code is rusty and it was never great to begin with.
 
7:36 PM
do you know anything about .net stuff?
 
8:03 PM
very little
 
8:41 PM
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Q: I am writing an essay but im kind of lost on how to add imagery

London HyorthWhen I got this essay it took me about a week to even process what I was going to write about. Who is my hero you asked, so in order to fully understand the whole idea of a hero I asked around and found who others considered to be there heroes, the response of one girl in particular truly grabbed...

 
 
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Q: What is front/back matter?

user2859458I was browsing around for different writing tools and one of the sites mentioned front and back matter as something around the chapters. What is front / back matter?

 

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