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9:07 AM
@CaptainGiraffe you've been having uncomfortable conversations with mushrooms?
 
 
1 hour later…
10:08 AM
well, it's quiet in here today
 
11:04 AM
Tonight, I try my cranberry lemonade with orange juice instead of lemon juice.
What's a few citruses amongst drinks?
Hmm. Not as good.
 
 
2 hours later…
Jay
1:06 PM
@BESW yea definitely doesnt sound like the best substitute
although they are both citrus their flavor profile is quite different
 
@Jay how's the motor?
 
Jay
shop is waiting on parts
how fast it gets done depends on when they receive the parts
so its super annoying
completely out of my hand. And completely out of the shops hands so i cant even call in to say i need it asap
 
c'est la vie
 
Jay
since they are partnered with nationwide, they have a website in which they give updates on the car
with new photos every day on the progress
 
Is there anything approaching a concensus on how much meat it is optimal for an adult male to consume, say, weekly?
 
1:14 PM
@FaheemMitha as much as he damn well wants
 
@ElendilTheTall Well, that's helpful.
@Jay is the cost of the repair covered by insurance?
 
Jay
Thats dilly for you, words most helpful man
 
@FaheemMitha you're welcome
 
Jay
@FaheemMitha yes but i still have to pay for the first $500 of it
 
recent UK Government guidance suggests 500g of red or processed meat a week
 
1:15 PM
@Jay I see. Do you mind if I ask what the total is?
 
@FaheemMitha total of what?
 
@ElendilTheTall Unlikely.
 
Jay
they estimated ~2500
 
@ElendilTheTall Sorry, wrong nick.
@Jay That's nasty. Sorry about that.
Is this a dealer? Did you try shopping around?
 
Jay
its weird how the littlest thing can suddenly turn into a giant expense
 
1:17 PM
Though I guess it might be mostly parts. Who is the manufacturer?
 
Jay
i drive a nissan altima
 
@Jay did you report that jagged piece of metal? It sounds like a hazard. The local municipality is probably the right place to report it to. And unlike in India, if you report it, they will normally fix it.
 
Jay
im hungry. someone feed me :(
 
@Jay Oh. Those are nice cars.
@Jay Maybe @ElendilTheTall will send you a care package.
 
Jay
yea my car was beautiful :(
sleek black sedan with kickass mpg
 
1:18 PM
@Jay Past tense?
I used to drive a Satin sedan. Nice car. A bit plasticky in feel.
 
Jay
plasticky how?
 
SW2, I think. Probably don't make them now. They keep changing the models.
 
Jay
i dont know what itll look like after my babies surgery.
But ill love him no matter what he looks like
 
@Jay I think much of the body was made of plastic.
But I know almost nothing about cars. Hmm, probably the panels at least.
Anyway, I liked it. And American cars have more reasonably priced parts, I think.
This is pretty close to how my car looked - carfinderservice.com/used/pictures/sw2
Even the color is identical.
I see I wrote Satin. That should have been Saturn, of course.
 
a Satin Saturn
 
1:33 PM
@ElendilTheTall Maybe they should have called it that, but they didn't.
 
missed a trick
well, so far Windows 10 seems good enough
it's more like a skin for Windows 8 AFAICS at present
main difference is the start menu, but I had a third party replacement for that in Win8 anyway
 
Windows. Ugh.
 
yeah yeah
Linux is great, Microsoft sucks, we know, we know
 
How much does the latest Windows license run for? Or is it bundled?
 
free for win8 or win7 users
 
1:35 PM
@ElendilTheTall Well, free software is great, proprietary softaware sucks. To be precise.
 
some free software is great
some free software sucks balls
 
@ElendilTheTall I was speaking conceptually.
@ElendilTheTall Of course.
Specific things might not be good. PHP, after all, is free software.
 
I've never understood the hate for PHP
 
@ElendilTheTall Have you ever used it?
 
1:38 PM
@ElendilTheTall I rest my case.
 
that was a fucking awful case, man
 
Has anyone ever been to the Green Knowe manor house? Long shot, I know.
You'd probably have to be English to do so.
 
no, never heard of it
 
@ElendilTheTall ok
Are there any other English people here?
@ElendilTheTall do you like gardens? Apparently it has a fine one.
 
Tom W
I like gardens, outside of hayfever season
why do you ask in any case?
 
1:43 PM
ok
A 4 acre garden, wowza.
@ElendilTheTall Why do I ask about what? About the Manor?
Or whether you like gardens?
 
the manor
 
@ElendilTheTall Just wondered if anyone has seen it, that's all. The Green Knowe series is based on the Manor, as you may know.
Though probably not if you've never heard of it.
Ok, dinner time.
If I ever did an English literary tour, it would be on my list.
 
i see
 
Jay
2:04 PM
My sisters birthday is coming up
I still havent figured out what to get her
 
hmmm
how old?
 
Jay
27 ---> 28
 
hmm
some kind of experience day? a nice spa treatment?
 
Jay
Nerdy quiet asian girl
 
everyone has stuff, get her something to remember
 
Jay
2:06 PM
shes not into girly things
so spa would go to waste
 
so get her a day shooting rifles
 
Jay
><
 
what's she into?
 
Jay
ermmmm
aside from pharmacy(her job) im not really sure
we dont really talk much about personal feelings and stuff
lol
 
you don't know what her interests are?
 
Jay
2:08 PM
nooope
 
jeez
get her a target gift card
 
Jay
target? who goes to target
 
your sister, for all you fucking know
:P
 
Jay
nah
she watches korean dramas
 
do you have any other, less sucky, siblings who might know what she likes?
 
Jay
2:09 PM
but i cant think of any gift ideas from that
 
a snuggy
 
Jay
hah
 
curl up, watch some K-drams
does she drink tea or coffee?
 
Jay
or i can get her something completely preposterous
neither
 
hmm
she sounds like a real treat: a pharmacist with no interests who likes watching awful TV
 
Jay
2:11 PM
shes pretty tough to shop for
 
:D
do you know where she likes to buy clothes?
 
Jay
why cant she be like a normal girl and be happy with like a necklace or something
@ElendilTheTall no idea
 
jesus h christ
what do you know, let's go that way
 
Jay
not much
vegetarian
quiet
pharmacist
boring
dont like girly things
 
'boring' - nice
spoken like a true brother
 
Jay
2:14 PM
responsibly boring*
 
a vegetarian cookbook?
 
Jay
actually that might not be a bad idea
 
vouchers for a meal at a good vegetarian restaurant
both of the above
 
Jay
but shes once told me she was super lazy when it comes to cooking. so she'll probably not use it haha
also she pretty much hates flavor.
 
a vegetarian cookbook of quick easy meals
 
Jay
2:16 PM
like she rather not have salt at all in her food
hence boring
 
takes all sorts
 
there you go
 
and it sounds slightly saucy
 
Jay
2:23 PM
heh
might be good for my sister
sauce up her life
 
which is actually creepy coming from her brother, you weirdo
 
Jay
lol
do you have a sister?
 
maybe
 
Jay
if so what type of gifts have you given her in the past
 
if I had a sister, I would hope I knew her well enough to have an easier time of buying for her
 
Jay
2:25 PM
do you actually have grown up siblings?
it really isnt as easy as you make it sound
 
yes, I have grown up siblings
if in doubt, ask your mother
 
Jay
damn ran out of bacon
so i made just a egg sandwich
with mustard and shricha
 
2:45 PM
Win10 new feature winner so far: when you snap a window to one side, it gives you thumbnails of your other windows to snap in the remaining space
very neat
 
2:59 PM
HI Tall
I am looking for a word. You know that I'm not a native English speaker
I'm never drank alcohol in my whole life. So when someone is asking why is that I wanted to reply
"because I have rules in my life."
 
those kind of rules are called principles
so you could say 'because I have principles'
 
I know this English sentence is not a perfect reply. And it doesn't convey the message that I really want to tell.
 
that might make you sound like you're implying that people who do drink have no principles though
so you could just say "It's just a rule I have for myself"
I too don't drink, and it's hard to give a reason that doesn't make it sound like you think you're superior for not doing so
 
I know a sinhala word which describes the exact thing I want. But I don't know the English word for it.
 
I mean, obviously we are superior, but it's not nice to let the drunkards know that
 
Jay
3:04 PM
lmao
or just say you are in AA and they will not come 100 feet of that subject again
 
"principle" doesn't imply the correct impression
 
Jay
seems like the perfect question to ask at english.stackexchange.com
theyll probably have more experience in the different nuances of different words to fit your match
 
Is there an another word that I could use in a reply where a situation like this occurs?
 
I think trying to force it into a single word is an easy way to get nuances wrong, no matter how hard you try.
If you explain your reasons a little more verbosely to someone reasonable and willing to listen, you can figure out what the actual reasons you want to say are, then you can try and condense those down into a couple phrases?
 
@Jefromi do you asking me why i don't drink?
 
3:25 PM
@JudeNiroshan did you read what else I wrote?
@jay you'd be surprised how many people jump to the conclusion that you're an alcoholic when you say you don't drink.
I always qualify 'No thanks, I don't drink' with 'I never have'.
 
@ElendilTheTall got it. Word > rectitude
 
That is a terrible word for it
It implies you think drinking is morally wrong
 
Jay
and sounds very similar to rectal
:D
 
OK. Then tell me why don't you drink? What's the reason for it not to have at least a shot?
 
Why don't you tell me why you don't drink, considering you're the one who wants to know how to put it?
 
3:35 PM
Hello all!
 
But I can't figure out the word that I want to tell. That's why I'm here to find it out. Help me
Hey @Cindy
"I don't have a proper scientific reason for it. As a principal in my life, I'm alcohol free." that's how if anyone come and ask this question from me. But I would like to know your response for this question
@ElendilTheTall ^^^
 
Your response seems perfectly reasonable and grammatically sound
 
Could you please tell me yours if you don't mind?
 
I don't drink partly because it's not good for you, partly because I hate idiotic drunks, and partly because I am a stubborn fuck and I've said I won't do it.
@Cindy hi!
Any call yet?
 
@ElendilTheTall No, but there's something I want your opinion on. Since I hadn't heard from the hiring manager I had thought about touching base with the recruiter today. However, this morning when I went to the job posting, it was closed and the same position had been posted again. Typically when this happens a new req # is generated for the position. Should I apply again or give the recruiter a call?
 
3:45 PM
@ElendilTheTall Thanks.
 
Jay
@Cindy i would definitely give the recruiter a call rather than reapply
also i happen to find "pooppouri" in my roommates bathroom
so i used some earlier and it works really really well
 
I'd give them a call first to see what the deal is.
 
@JudeNiroshan You could also counter the question with "Why would I drink?".
 
Jay
@Cindy thats seems overly antagonistic
and hes trying to avoid using a "superior" tone when he tells people he doesnt drink
 
Stock answer is 'it's fun!'
 
Jay
3:49 PM
so that would defeat that purpose
 
However, "why do you?" is my stock answer when asked why I don't believe in god
People often have never actually thought about it
 
@Jay Yeah, but sometimes...... No, really I was joking. I just don't think people should have to explain or defend their choices.
@ElendilTheTall Okay.
 
I wasn't trying to say anything like that I'm trying be a superior kinda thing
 
@JudeNiroshan I know. I was just joking.
 
Regarding that alcohol questions
 
3:53 PM
@JudeNiroshan just reply "WILLPOWER MOTHERFUCKER!"
 
I think what you said about it being a principle in your life is very well said.
 
"If I come into contact with alcohol I become unstable at a molecular level"
 
Update - Hubby does have a blood clot in the vein. They were concerned that it might be the artery but fortunately it's not. Still very painful, though.
 
I'll bet
 
@ElendilTheTall @Jay I'm going to see if I can get through to the recruiter. Back in a few minutes.
 
Jay
4:14 PM
@Cindy Good luck
 
@JudeNiroshan Was just trying to suggest a way for you to figure out what to tell people.
 
4:41 PM
(because things along the lines of "I have rules" are not really much of an answer, obviously you have a rule in this case, the question is why, and so people will tend to ask "why do you have this rule?")
 
 
1 hour later…
5:52 PM
@JudeNiroshan "principle", not "principal".
@Jefromi you could just say you don't enjoy it. Though if you have never tried, that cannot be strictly true. But that's at least partly true in my case.
E.g. beer. Dehydrates my mouth and leaves an unpleasant aftertaste. And I don't like the taste much either.
And hard liquor burns my mouth.
Well, the last time was my upper lip, to be precise.
Alchohol always struck me as stuff that was more suitable for use as paint remover than as something to ingest.
 
6:22 PM
@ElendilTheTall @Jay I spoke to the recruiter and she was very receptive to my call. She reposted the position to keep it fresh and more noticeable. (She said the job board repositions them further down the list as time progresses.) Re the hiring manager, she said not to worry, to just give it a little more time as they were quite busy. So, she didn't view it as unusual or negative that I haven't received a call yet. :) Fingers still crossed!
Bonus is that I also had the opportunity to thank her for the call earlier this week.
 
6:48 PM
@Cindy How much experience have you had working with that recruiter?
 
6:59 PM
@cindy sounds good!
 
@FaheemMitha None until this week. She contacted me about a position I had applied for.
 
@Cindy I see.
Is it possible to contact recruiters directly? Assuming you know of them?
 
@ElendilTheTall :) It definitely made me feel better. Do you have plans for the weekend?
@FaheemMitha Yes. I've reached out to those I know.
 
@Cindy ok.
I've not had good experiences with the recruiters I've dealt with. Here's hoping your experience will be different.
 
Jay
@Cindy yea thats something ive noticed in the past
multiple postings of the same job ~5 days apart
 
7:18 PM
@FaheemMitha Here's hoping!
@Jay Yeah. At least it makes some sense now. At least for job boards.
 
Jay
but yea keep positive
nothing worse than getting depressed for nothing
 
@Jay So true. Somehow I've managed to keep a positive attitude. But it's coming up on 10 months, now. So I have worried about bills. But no sense in dwelling on it. That only makes things worse.
 
Jay
@Cindy puppies and rainbows!
 
@Jay And kittens! :)
 
Jay
yea and kittens :D
kittens in a puppy suit
 
7:24 PM
Too cute!
 
Jay
actually i remember seeing a video of puppies in kitty suits
 
That had to be hilarious.
 
Jay
i cant find it anymore :(
 
I must go and get a few things done before I start prepping dinner. Catch you guys in a bit. And thanks for all of the support and good wishes! :)
 
Jay
bye!
 

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