@MichaelClark Congrats on the gold badge duplicate - didn't realise we had people that could do that :-) photo.stackexchange.com/questions/83037/…

I didn't realize I could do that either until it happened!

I saw it. I think you may have fallen into the trap of thinking that frank honesty has to be rude.

Tact is not dishonest, and honesty doesn't excuse impoliteness. It's still the Stack, insulting people isn't cool.

The message may be accurate, but the presentation is definitely downvotable.

And, well. A good answer in the Stack format wouldn't just say "grow up," it'd include some actionable experience-based advice on how to become more mature and professional in that context. Otherwise it's roughly the same as saying "Take better pictures" or "Learn InDesign" on a question about those topics.

@Ryan I'd vote to migrate it to psychological or medical SE but I can't.

there I left a slightly less blunt answer

thanks @BESW

@Ryan "In all seriousness, this question is offensive." - how is it?

@Ryan Personally I would find offensive that my erection is considered a problem.

Erection is as normal ss normal sneezing in dusty air is.

@EuriPinhollow isn't growing up what an erection is?

@AJHenderson It probably is: just until a woman joins this chat finally and we need to switch to unisexual definition.