this is the old one http://superuser.com/questions/843115/xvid-for-home-theater and this is the new one that i want to keep it http://superuser.com/questions/843234/how-to-encode-xvid-using-ffmpeg-for-home-theater-dvd-player
No, but the points are cumulative. They're not black marks or anything. Your reputation is the sum of all points, negative and positive. You now have way more positive than negative. Nobody has only positive points!
One more thing @idavid. Please edit your question and explain what options you want. It's not very clear at the moment. I think you want to ask "What options should I use to get..." and not "How do I add these options".